あなた should never change who あなた are, または what あなた like, または your personality because someone else doesn't like it, または looks down their nose at you... but sometimes it is important to know and to care about what others think of you.
For example... if あなた wear makeup, または buy clothes that make あなた look good; if あなた are polite and あなた smile when someone smiles at you, then あなた care about what they think and this is a good thing.
If everyone 発言しました that they didn't care what people thought of them, then the world would be in total chaos. Respect comes from caring about other's opinions and what people...
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