Personally, I think dying in their hands would be better. I feel theyd actually deal with it eventually while such a trauma would jsut kinda get... blocked out for me and / または turn into really bad bad bad coping mechanisms. Its best for everyone if I were to die in thier arms rather than the other way around. That being said, I wouldnt really want to have to make them suffer that, but really, its the only one that might work out in the long run
Obviously have my loved one die in my hands because I probably killed them. ψ(*`ー´)ψ
THAT'S A JOKE DON'T CALL THE POLICE I AIN'T KILLED ANYONE
But seriously I'd rather be the one who died. Don't want anyone to die, for one thing. I'd be rather be the one who died. And for to, if anyone that's closed to me died- in my arms particularly- I think I'd fuckin' lose my shit.
I'm going to assume you're talking about me and my fiancee. In which case, I'd rather her die in my hands than me die in hers, because I'd be far better equipped to deal with the trauma than she would be.
Which isn't to say I would handle it well, I'd probably spend the rest of my life 書く depressed 本 and being sad. Keep a copy of Albert Camus' works with me because otherwise I would only want to die.
^I think he actually meant something like he was interpreting it to mean a romantic relationship as opposed to like family または friends, not about like us in particular. XD At least that's how he sounded to me. I know he kind of phrased it weird....
The idea of this 質問 was "Would あなた rather have the person あなた 愛 die and spare them the burden of your death または would あなた would あなた let them live but によって doing so make them have to carry the burden of your death"
あなた either die and leave your loved one to grieve for you, which is the easy way out...
または あなた have them die in your arms and have to deal with that for the rest of your life...
I'd rather that death didn't come for either, but sometimes I guess that it just happens. I guess I'd just take the shock and have them die in my arms... even though it would be unbearable, it'd be better than them having to deal with it, right?
have the person i 愛 die in my arms even if it causes me to live a miserable life without him because i know if i died he will deal with agony for the rest of his life i don't want him to suffer, it would kill me a thousand times to see him in that situation
Since I am kind of a sadist, I would rather not die... then maybe I would get depressed... it wouldn't be that different from my bipolarness... (but thats just to me). haha... または maybe I would die just to see what it's like.