I guess so. It really depends on the person, though. あなた can hate some people and 愛 others. I guess the people あなた love, there is not a to that, though. XD
it depends if infatuation または real true love. あなた cant stop 愛 または force it. how much あなた 愛 the person isnt up to you. 愛 is enevitable, but becareful who あなた let have it because the worst storms start when they're unexpected