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I feel like there is no where to turn. Everywhere I go I hear people talking about me, calling me stupid ugly. I can't take it anymore, even some of my フレンズ are treating me bad. I went to one of myy フレンズ party and we decided to play a game, there was two way to decide who gose first the ugliest または the oldest they chose the ugliest and stared with me. I feel so alone, I've talked to people and still its no help, no one seems to understand how i feel, and i can't trust anyone. I really need help and I feel like if I don't get help soon, i'm going to end up hurting myself. Dose anyone have any websites that could help me または something please? I'm in desparte need of it.

 rose12345 posted 1年以上前
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DibLuver25 said:
I was in the same situation あなた were last year, I turned to cutting and it didn't help at all. Sure it took my mind off the emotional pain, but in reality it was only giving me something to hide. Something もっと見る to add to all the drama. I really don't know what to tell you, but things get better, trust me. I went through the same thing. I really don't have any recources to help you, im really sorry. Maybe あなた could try telling your フレンズ あなた don't like it when they do that, and if they continue then I wouldn't be their friend anymore, it's just not worth it. As to deal with the bullies, just ignore them. It may be near impossible to do, but all bullies really want is to see あなた suffer, why give them the satisfaction? They don't know anything, bullies are just ignorant and closed minded people. Also, maybe あなた could start doing something あなた enjoy, like for me I let out my emotions using 詩 and drawing. It helped me get it all out without hurting myself. I also learned that it doesn't matter what anyone thinks of you, who are they to judge? People call me crazy for not caring, but I don't really care. Of course it still hurts when I get made fun of, but it's become easier and easier to realize that everyone who judges me for what I look like is a closed minded idiot. I hope this helped, I wish あなた the best of luck!
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Thank あなた that helps alot
rose12345 posted 1年以上前
azkaban said:
They're obviously not your friends
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yea. i guess not
rose12345 posted 1年以上前
_naiza said:
Just tell them to fuck themselves _|_
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That won't work t only maks them talk もっと見る
rose12345 posted 1年以上前
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Just don't care, I'm sure, in your school still have people that 愛 あなた :D
_naiza posted 1年以上前
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yea
rose12345 posted 1年以上前
someone_save_me said:
No, I'm sorry... have あなた told your parents/guardians about this?
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kinda of, not everything, but all they keep saying is it'll get better. but its not
rose12345 posted 1年以上前
Shadowmarioking said:
Don't hurt yourself, you'll only make the situation worse. I've been bullied before, and the best thing to do is to ignore what others say. Even better, talk back to them in a way like this:
Bully: God you're so ugly
You: Why thank you, I do look bad today huh? Oh well! *small giggle*
That'll 表示する them that you're not affected によって what they say, and eventually they'll stop.
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Alright i'll try
rose12345 posted 1年以上前
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Yeah if あなた act like あなた don't care then they will stop because they'll realize it's pointless since it has no effect on あなた
azkaban posted 1年以上前
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I agree, if あなた 表示する them that it doesn't bother you, they'll leave あなた alone.
taismo723 posted 1年以上前
LittleOtaku1 said:
do this to all of them:

t(-_-t)
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lol thats funny
galou_2010 posted 1年以上前
narlyvamp1234 said:
dont hurt yourself, it never resolves the problem. i know a website, look up hell correspondence, type in the names of your tormentors and i will get revenge on them for you, dont worry, your grievance shall be avenged.
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alright thanks
rose12345 posted 1年以上前
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your welcome
narlyvamp1234 posted 1年以上前
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uhh it says u will go to hell -_-
reb1009 posted 1年以上前
JaseKS said:
I know exactly how あなた feel. All the guys at my school joke around and say they like me, and it drives me nuts. They taunt me, and I dont talk much, and they wont shut up and leave me alone. あなた can talk to me anytime.
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Thanks
rose12345 posted 1年以上前
chattycandy said:
this maybe
link
im not sure but try it
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alright thank あなた
rose12345 posted 1年以上前
Sasume said:
Well I can tell あなた from experience that whatever happens, there is nothing that demands the absolute worst solution that is irreversible. I'm sad to hear that even your フレンズ won't help you. This might sound cheesy but that truly means that they're not your friends. Real フレンズ won't try to bring あなた down, they'll support あなた and help you. Maybe it's time あなた found new friends? Think about it this way: is EVERYONE really talking bad about you? あなた make it worse on yourself when あなた silently agree with the bullies. Why don't あなた do something あなた love? Play an instrument, a sport, read a book, listen to music. Try to distract yourself with something fun. If that fails I would suggest see a counselor または something. I may not know you, but I want あなた to be ok. Good luck!
This website might help:
link
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Thanks
rose12345 posted 1年以上前
springely said:
Tell them あなた don't care, and tell them if あなた keep bothering you, あなた will get them in trouble. If they keep doing it, tell your parents, then tell your teachers. あなた need to 表示する that あなた don't want them anymore, and あなた should tell them to go away.
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That's only going to make it harder on me, and if i tell it'll make it worst
rose12345 posted 1年以上前
BabyBlud said:
This is a link to a website that shows different リンク to other sites about bullying and how to handle it -

link

However if your フレンズ are starting to bully あなた too, just to be 'in the crowd' then they are not true フレンズ and あなた are better off without them.
I can't say whether you're ugly または not as i don't know what あなた look like, and sure あなた may not be the prettiest one in the school, but i'm certain there is one aspect of あなた that is gorgeous. Have あなた ever thought that these people are bullying あなた because they're jealous?
あなた have something they don't and they want it, and to 表示する that they are hounding あなた to put あなた down so low あなた can't even accept yourself. Don't let them.
My アドバイス is that あなた tell your parents, sit them down and explain that because of all the bullying and their 'it'll get better attitude' あなた feel as though they don't care, that they have no time to help. If bullying doesn't get nipped in the bud once it starts then it can go on for years and years. And it can also lead to death. A dear friend of mine was bullied all the way through school, and on the last 年 he'd had enough and drowned himself. Because of that i've always felt the bullies had won. If あなた start harming yourself, you're 表示中 these bullies that what they are doing to あなた is working. Try to ignore them as much as あなた can as they'll get bored and stop once they know their words aren't taking effect. Go talk to your teachers, write letters to the board, ask the headmistress/master to do something. They have an obligation to stop this, i'm sure the school has a no bullying policy, so get them to use it and enforce it.
Hope everything gets sorted for あなた soon, and あなた need anyone to talk to i'm only a message away.
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Thanks
rose12345 posted 1年以上前
taismo723 said:
I too was bullied. but によって this asshole who didn't like me at all for some unknown reason. He 発言しました "I hate Arizona cuz it reminds me of Kacey. (me)". And one 日 my teacher asked us if we would rather sit with people または alone because we sat near each other for a while. The kid 発言しました company, but I 発言しました I'd rather die in a hole. Which was very true. Eventually after he moved, I sent him a message on フェイスブック about him being fat. But that is not what あなた should do.

I adivse あなた ignore them, and 表示する them that あなた don't give a shit. they should leave あなた alone.
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thanks
rose12345 posted 1年以上前
invaderlin123 said:
i get this all the time sweety
i have some difficulties on what im obsessed with take やおい for example me and my フレンズ 愛 やおい but they make fun of some of the couples i like.
ad some of my フレンズ dont like やおい at all and they make fun of me and push me in the lockers and they call me things like gay-lover and ignorant.
then one 日 one of my フレンズ in chorus asked me why i like やおい so much i told her that its what i 愛 and if she couldnt accept that than that we shouldnt be フレンズ anymore. then i told her how i felt when she called me names and she talks behind my back. she 発言しました " oh i understand im sorry" and we both hugged :) all あなた gotta do is talk things out and tell them how あなた feel and if they dont accept あなた for who あなた are then あなた should just end the friendship cause its not worth it
thx for listening :D ~lin ♥
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thanks
rose12345 posted 1年以上前
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np
invaderlin123 posted 1年以上前
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