is their a diffrence betweening having sex and making 愛 i believe so justwanting an extra opion

Of course there is!!

(I know this is an old question...but it is a good one).
Love is the key part of makinglove- もっと見る romantic, the beginning または continuance of being loving, giving love, receiving love. There is もっと見る to sexual doings and actions when "making love" ~just like the word says.

Sex can be devoid of any real closeness, of knowing the person または a stranger または even their name! O.O It can also be with someone あなた DO care about & 愛 but "just sex" is もっと見る base, either meaning less romantic, less, meaning, または もっと見る animal lust....

Combinations of either of these can be elements in both TOO.

making 愛 is meaningful .a good thing. sex is just meaningless sex.there are no feelings,no connection really.usually they are just there for the moment.

I have sex with my gf (Sinna) all the time but I perfer saying making sweet 愛 and if あなた think I do just sex well your wrong cause I do 愛 making 愛 with my girl all the time cause I really 愛 her so much that I just want to make sweet 愛 to her all night & day. <3333333333333