"I've found that a substantial fraction of many people's days is spent worrying about what others think of them. If nobody ever worried about what was in other people's heads, we'd all be 33 percent もっと見る effective in our lives and on our jobs.
How did I come up with 33 percent? I'm a scientist. I like exact numbers, even if I can't always prove them. So let's just run with 33 percent.
I used to tell antone who worked in my research group: "You don't ever have to worry about what I'm thinking. Good または bad, I'll let あなた know what's in my head."
That meant when I wasn't happy about something, I spoke up, often directly and not always tactfully. But on the positive side, I was able to reassure people: "If I haven't 発言しました anything, あなた have nothing to worry about."
Students and colleagues came to appreciate that, and they didn't waste a lot of time obsessing over. "What is Randy thinking?" Because mostly, what I was thinking was this: I have people on my team who are 33 percent もっと見る effective than everyone else. That's what was in my head.
How did I come up with 33 percent? I'm a scientist. I like exact numbers, even if I can't always prove them. So let's just run with 33 percent.
I used to tell antone who worked in my research group: "You don't ever have to worry about what I'm thinking. Good または bad, I'll let あなた know what's in my head."
That meant when I wasn't happy about something, I spoke up, often directly and not always tactfully. But on the positive side, I was able to reassure people: "If I haven't 発言しました anything, あなた have nothing to worry about."
Students and colleagues came to appreciate that, and they didn't waste a lot of time obsessing over. "What is Randy thinking?" Because mostly, what I was thinking was this: I have people on my team who are 33 percent もっと見る effective than everyone else. That's what was in my head.
Ok, here it is,
One 日 I'm at school, just minding my own biz, and talking to my friends. Then one of my ex boyfriends フレンズ comes up. Hes all," Hey, heres a note from Robert." So I read it. It read,
If I could have 3 wishes, it would be to have the girl I 愛 back who burnd me, and to have enough money to buy her whatever she wants...
Obvisosly, hes talking about me. We dated last year, now... hes still on my shoulders, like an annoying 鸚鵡, オウム that won't go away. My friend told him that I wanted to go back out with him... and I don't!
Then...*sighs* then, theres my online boyfriend... hes sweet, charming, and we do things... I've known Robert longer, but my 愛 for him..(online bf) is so strong... we talked with our voices today and I almost screamed...
But the probolm is, is that I'm tring to break up with Robert, but every time I'm about to say it, he gives me a gift または when I say it, he laughs and thinks I'm joking.. What do I do?!?!
One 日 I'm at school, just minding my own biz, and talking to my friends. Then one of my ex boyfriends フレンズ comes up. Hes all," Hey, heres a note from Robert." So I read it. It read,
If I could have 3 wishes, it would be to have the girl I 愛 back who burnd me, and to have enough money to buy her whatever she wants...
Obvisosly, hes talking about me. We dated last year, now... hes still on my shoulders, like an annoying 鸚鵡, オウム that won't go away. My friend told him that I wanted to go back out with him... and I don't!
Then...*sighs* then, theres my online boyfriend... hes sweet, charming, and we do things... I've known Robert longer, but my 愛 for him..(online bf) is so strong... we talked with our voices today and I almost screamed...
But the probolm is, is that I'm tring to break up with Robert, but every time I'm about to say it, he gives me a gift または when I say it, he laughs and thinks I'm joking.. What do I do?!?!