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Can あなた give me advice?

My 2 "friends" get mad at me for no reason. Like today when they "jokingly" called a guy (kinda sorta my boyfriend... its complicated) an idiot, and they got mad when I got upset. This happens weekly, and sometimes they call me and my フレンズ idiots. They also write mean notes when they are mad at me. What should I do? Should I "dump" them または deal with it? (when i try to tell them they deny it)
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I'm fanning all of あなた for helping me. U don't know how much this helps me! THX!
Ghoulia_fan posted 1年以上前
 Ghoulia_fan posted 1年以上前
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8theGreat said:
Do NOT just let this slide. Never let things like that slide.
あなた can either address them with the problem in the calmest and most mature manner possible, または あなた can simply stop being フレンズ with them. If あなた ask me, あなた should try to address them to at least do as much about their perspective on it as possible, just to see both sides of the story in a balanced manner before making any definite decisions. Find out why, and find out if the problem can be resolved for future situations. However, I don't know the story in full, so I can't tell あなた what is exactly best to do and the real choice is up to you.
However! Do not lash out in a violent または disrespectful manner as it will only escalate the problem and it may get あなた in trouble as well.

Gah, sorry for the soap box... In a nut shell, I strongly suggest that あなた approach it in the most mature and reasonable manner possible and in the extents that あなた find most necessary. Evaluate and see if the problem can be and is worth fixing, and use your best judgement to make decisions afterward.
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posted 1年以上前 
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thx and its ok its helpful and detailed
Ghoulia_fan posted 1年以上前
adultswimperson said:
Leave them and don't make any contact with them whatsoever, there not your friends, there just douchebags that want to push your buttons so they'll think you'll go over the limit.
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posted 1年以上前 
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thx
Ghoulia_fan posted 1年以上前
r-pattz said:
Tell them they're shallow fake assholes who deserve the ultimate punishment of spending the rest of their lives listening to nothing but Taylor Swift~

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posted 1年以上前 
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nice one
iamagagamonster posted 1年以上前
CMxJ2xKA_L0Ve said:
Dump em! Kick em to the curb! Break their itty bitty hearts! Say it however あなた want. フレンズ are supposed to make あなた happy not sad!
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posted 1年以上前 
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thx
Ghoulia_fan posted 1年以上前
iamagagamonster said:
I say ditch them at a コンサート and 移動する to london
if あなた live in london, Your in good hands -thumbs up-
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 I say ditch them at a コンサート and 移動する to ロンドン if あなた live in london, Your in good hands -thumbs up-
posted 1年以上前 
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YAY! I 愛 british people!
Ghoulia_fan posted 1年以上前
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haha
iamagagamonster posted 1年以上前
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thx
Ghoulia_fan posted 1年以上前
bubblegum_kiss said:
well if theyre just "friends" (i assume that the quotation marks mean theyre not very good フレンズ to you)then あなた should get rid of them. point being "friends" with people who write あなた mean notes and call あなた an idiot.
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thx
Ghoulia_fan posted 1年以上前
Jeffersonian said:
"Dump" them, if they can't be nice they don't deserve your friendship.
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Ghoulia_fan posted 1年以上前
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