i need help i want to become bi how can i become bi i don't want to be straight i hate boy!!!

あなた can't... your 質問 leaves me with the impression that あなた are angry and bitter, and possibly confused about Boys. あなた had suffered an unfortunate experience, Well I don't know the cercumstances of your experence, but I know this, I was also raped once, but I don't hold it against boys, it was only one man, and that's not All boys. Its not something that anyboy would just do, some are nice, some are good, some aren't, some are just plan jerks (ofensive, sexists JERKS!) but only a few can be an actual Rapest. What I'm trying to say is あなた can't just become BI simply because あなた feel あなた want to be now, the 質問 is Are あなた attracted to Both Boys and Girls または not, because if あなた are not attracted to both that あなた can not possibly become BI.

If あなた are strait and only like boys, または a lesbian and only like girls that is fine, but just be careful, and know your company (a GIRL can be a rapest to あなた know). Only hang aroud with people あなた feel あなた can trust, and actually know... または well, I'm not trying to make any assumptions, Since, of course I don't know you, I just mean to give the best アドバイス I can.

Just know yourself, and go with that. Explore, but don't get stubborn, and become involved in affairs with other people simply out of the spite あなた feel towards Boys. That simply would not be fair to the other person (If あなた try to be bi, but turns out that あなた aren't, if あなた even have to ask... people usually tend to know what they are attacted to)... well, I hope this helped.

First of all: I am terribly, terribly sorry that あなた were raped. I know that it can engender a deep mistrust of the male sex. So in that sense, I understand your urgency.

If あなた find that あなた feel 安全, 安全です with women, and being around women, and that あなた feel attracted to women, then go for it. But sexuality isn't something あなた can switch on and off like a light switch. あなた can't just wake up one 日 and decide to be lesbian または bisexual, anymore than gay people can wake up and decide to be straight. Either the attraction is there, または it isn't, plain and simple.

The only way for あなた to "become" bisexual is if あなた already are bisexual.

Look, like I said, I completely understand the fear of men right now. But just give it time. And surely あなた have male フレンズ that あなた trust? When you're ready to start spending time with men again, start によって spending time with them, just hanging out, like あなた usually do with friends. When you're comfortable around your male friends, maybe step beyond that. Try talking to guys あなた kind of know. あなた don't have to 日付 them - just talk to them. Until you're comfortable with them again.

In the meantime, spend time with your girl friends. They'll have your back. Maybe just don't 日付 または be intimate with anyone, man または woman, for a while, until you're ready to do that again. If あなた find in this sexual hiatus that あなた are attracted to women and あなた want to be with women, then, like I said, go for it.

But nobody can make あなた bisexual. あなた either are, または あなた aren't.

Also - I feel I must encourage あなた to レポート this devastating crime. I know you're scared, and humiliated, but that's all the もっと見る reason to レポート this. Please tell the police. Too many rapes go unreported, and too many rapists escape to do it again.

Well if you'd like to be bi no one's stopping you. によって all means. But if あなた were raped and あなた don't like guys, wouldn't あなた rather be a lesbian then?

im so so so sorry that happened! being bi isnt just something u can make happen. so be aware that this is going to work 4 sure. think of how 安全, 安全です women make u feel. think about all the positives. imagine キス girls, touching girls and even having sex with girls. idk if anything can really help u here... im so deeply sorry

Start looking at girls like myself in a もっと見る sexual way! Look at their boobs and vg and just have fun with it!

u cant just b bi just like tat u gattta feel u like a girl and a guy. u cant just say i am ganna become bi wit out u likeing others. u should expirament.

all gurls go throught...ugh i hate blokes...der just.... >:)



anyway my point,u dont choose to be bi not all blokes are going to rape u...learn to fight [;

theres not really a way to become bi, most pple are jst born tht way bt dnt realize it till they older. i wuld say jst try stuff wit girls and pple, and see wat ya thnk lol

Try to キッス a girl, または get a girl in ベッド with u and start making out, または find a girl who is bi または les and ask em out and then キッス em または get them in ベッド and make out!!!!!!!!!!!!!