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What should I do?

I'm a Feminist, but I'm also a Christian. The problem here is that as a Feminist, I would want to meet a nice guy who respects me as a human being, but I'm afraid that he'll want premarital sex, which goes against my abstinence choice; as a Christian, I would like to meet a guy who respects and probably shares my abstinence choice, but I'm afraid that he'll be the "women must be submissive" type fools that'll force me into marriage before I'm even ready and make me a submissive being (which would be pretty simple for him because I'm softspoken). Any advice?
 ivoryphills posted 1年以上前
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Dope_Sean said:
Just let the right person come ur way, i mean if they the one, they wud neva force u into anything and just as u wanna be loved as a human, also 愛 back, be patient and stand up 4 wat u believe in and people actually respect that...
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posted 1年以上前 
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Well said... If the boy あなた are with doesn't respect you, don't worry and wait for the 次 one...
DamederBlumen posted 1年以上前
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True dat!!
Dope_Sean posted 1年以上前
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:-) Thanks!
ivoryphills posted 1年以上前
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u welcome
Dope_Sean posted 1年以上前
dreamfields said:
Wait for the right guy. Watch out for any guy (Christians included) that's a control freak. Yes there is the whole bit about submitting, that is often misunderstood. Remember, we are to 提出する one to another. It goes both ways. As a Christian, don't be afraid to pray that God will prepare the right man for you.
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posted 1年以上前 
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lol Thank you!
ivoryphills posted 1年以上前
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:)
dreamfields posted 1年以上前
RobinFan360 said:
Not all guys are out to get sex. In fact, only 45% of young people are actually having sex. あなた being submissive to him does not give him the right to cause あなた to sin. Plus, if he's a nice christian guy, he won't try to make あなた do it.
Point is is that あなた don't have to listen to him if he's asking for あなた to sin.
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posted 1年以上前 
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well 発言しました :)
dreamfields posted 1年以上前
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and even if someones not christian doesnt mean they dont share similiar 閲覧数
Deans_Girl posted 1年以上前
Deans_Girl said:
Once あなた know, あなた may have found the right guy and あなた feel like あなた can trust him. tell him exactly what あなた told us. if he loves あなた he will respect that
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posted 1年以上前 
SubRacquel said:
Just stand up for yourself

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