Kinda Personal : My boyfriend told me he masturbated and I'm thinking that it's a reflection on how he finds me attractive..

It's normal, trust me. I do it too and so does my boyfriend, sometimes even when the other one is in the same room. Self pleasure is important and has no reflection on how attractive your boyfriend finds you. It's probably his way to either give himself a moment of pleasure to relax または relieve some stress. He was honest enough to tell あなた about it and I doubt it was his intention to hurt you.

I don"t think a lot of guys masturbation as a part of their sex life. If あなた ask a guy who's not having sex about his sex life, he probably won't say "It's great, I masturbate at least three times a day"

Don't focus on whether he's masturbating または not, but what he's thinking about when he does. If he was willing to tell あなた he was masturbating, he should be ok with あなた asking what he was thinking about. It's really sexy, actually. If he's thinking about you, there's no problem.
He could also have a ファンタジー he's too nervous to tell あなた about and this is his way to get あなた to ask questions. I tried that with a girl once, but she didn't ask questions, so I dropped it.

i know youre nervous to ask him as あなた 発言しました but seriously HOW do あなた expect to have a good relationship with someone if あなた cant talk to him aboot something thats worrying you? and can i also ask if あなた are comfortable aboot the amount of sex あなた guys have?
great answer,eh? two 質問 :P