I am a lot like Haley, personally-wise, mostly in season 1.
I share the same passion, meaning singing. If there's one thing that I know is that if I was offered a tour like she was, I would have done it and for sure.

In season 2, I wasn't really on a team, I was not in Haley's side but I was not in Nathan's either. I mean they got married at 17 and to me that was too soon. Okay, Naley are epic and I do love them but who gets married at 17 ? That's way too soon. They were too young and they didn't enjoy their youth the way they should. The proof being Haley. If she weren't married when she was proposed, nothing between them wold have happened the way it did.
Anyway, to me, Nathan didn't have the right to impeach her to go, it was her decision. And honestly, I would have done the same thing as Haley did. However, the way she left, I disagree. She left him like this, without any explanation and after that she didn't give any news or anything. She thought it was over but that was always an easy explanation to me. I blame her for refusing to accept her situation. She was married and she had to assume it, she didn't.

Haley leaving without a word, not contacting Nathan & not standing up to Chris when he said in front of the camera that they are together was very wrong, even though she was hurt & felt rejected by Nathan.
Nate on the other hand acted like a douche on this. If he truly loved her in a mature way, he'd support her dream with all his strength instead of giving her a stupid ultimatum and cutting her ambitions down.

That was the first thing I thought. I mean she left Nathan without any explanation, he came back to fix the things, bu she was already gone, he went for her on that tour, but the way she acted i dont know that was weird. She should tell him, that Chris means nothing, but in the way, he would really believe in that. She shouldn't hide her ring, plus when Nathan had that accident no matter what she should back to Tree Hill! But she gave up so easily...she did a lot of bad choices. I know she was following her dream and i understand that, she had her right for that, but the way she acted, I just hate. I think most of all i was by Nathan's side in all of this..

I was never on a team. Haley got the chance to make her dream came true and express her talent for singing and she would be a fool not to take advantage of the situation. On the other hand, I can understand Nathan, who married and loved the girl but she wanted to leave.

The one thing I never agreed on with Haley is Chris involvement in the situation. She kissed Chris while she was married and alive (People condemn Peyton for kissing Lucas while she was bleeding to death - but no one says Haley cheated on Nathan.) She wasn't honest with Nathan and she left with him.

I didn't agree with Nathan about giving the ultimatum to Haley (either you stay or it's over). I can understand his reaction but it was only for a few weeks.

Both had their faults and their reasons to behave like they did but everything turned out okay.