I'm not sure if anyone will think this to be worthy of being a Soapbox Article, but it is something that I wanted to share.
It's a short poem that I wrote a long time ago, which has words that I was only guessing about at the time.
I've discovered them to be very true for maintaining a good relationship, but it needs to be followed によって both people.
Anyways, one 日 we were 与えられた the task of 書く a four line poem in one of my English classes in high school. It had to be something meaningful, but we could pick the subject.
It doesn't have a title, but here it is:
Design with thy heart
And learn to share
For 愛 is an art
Which needs much care
It's important for both people to pay attention to the needs of the other, and to make sure that both of あなた share. Whether it be talking, hugging, dealing with problems, etc., あなた should both be there for each other.
If あなた don't like something, talk about it. It's better to have compromises, then to have either of あなた try to change each other into someone あなた are not.
If あなた try to force a change, あなた might not be happy with it, and the person あなた tried to change might look elsewhere because of it.
Try to take things one 日 at a time, and don't forget about compassion. Try to put yourself in your partner's shoes when あなた talk to each other. Listen to what they are saying, and if あなた don't completely understand something, ask... just don't phrase it in a way that may sound judgemental, または あなた may get shut out. Let them know that あなた care and want to understand.
愛 can be a two-way street, and あなた should be trying to travel in the same vehicle... not in ones headed toward each other in a collision.
It's a short poem that I wrote a long time ago, which has words that I was only guessing about at the time.
I've discovered them to be very true for maintaining a good relationship, but it needs to be followed によって both people.
Anyways, one 日 we were 与えられた the task of 書く a four line poem in one of my English classes in high school. It had to be something meaningful, but we could pick the subject.
It doesn't have a title, but here it is:
Design with thy heart
And learn to share
For 愛 is an art
Which needs much care
It's important for both people to pay attention to the needs of the other, and to make sure that both of あなた share. Whether it be talking, hugging, dealing with problems, etc., あなた should both be there for each other.
If あなた don't like something, talk about it. It's better to have compromises, then to have either of あなた try to change each other into someone あなた are not.
If あなた try to force a change, あなた might not be happy with it, and the person あなた tried to change might look elsewhere because of it.
Try to take things one 日 at a time, and don't forget about compassion. Try to put yourself in your partner's shoes when あなた talk to each other. Listen to what they are saying, and if あなた don't completely understand something, ask... just don't phrase it in a way that may sound judgemental, または あなた may get shut out. Let them know that あなた care and want to understand.
愛 can be a two-way street, and あなた should be trying to travel in the same vehicle... not in ones headed toward each other in a collision.
Once upon a time, I was falling in love. We were a happy couple, blind to the troubles of the world around us. He was perfectly shaped for me, and I for him. He was the sun for my darkest night. I only felt complete when I was with him. The times we had together were the some of the best memories I ever had. We laughed, we hugged, we kissed. We spent hours in his room または mine, playing our secret lover games. We talked on the phone into the early hours about anything and everything. There were no secrets between us. I knew what made him happy, what made him sad, what kept him running when it seemed impossible. Once upon a time, I was falling in love. Now I'm only falling apart.
