Hello,
If a shy guy does the following he definitely have a crush on you:
1. Looks at あなた when あなた are not looking (looks away when あなた look at him)
2. Doesn't talk to あなた when with your friends
3. When trying to initiate converstaion, asks dead end 質問 -
e.g "Did あなた do your homework?" instead of "How did あなた get on with your homework?"
4. Ignores あなた -
This is the most misinterpereted. If he completely ignores あなた in a public setting he likes you.
If he converses with あなた and politly excuses himself in a hurry with no real reason he doesn't like you.
5. If he puts あなた on the spot when conversing with his フレンズ he likes you.
6. If あなた flirt with each other via text/ msn etc frequently and あなた agree to go on a 日付 and he suddenly stops texting/msn'ing he is too shy/scared または broke. He still likes あなた but will be embaressed from then on.
7. If he flirts with あなた via eye contact, あなた approach him and he says very little but has no intention of ending the converstation, he likes you.
8. If he has known あなた for a long period of time and is now randomly initiating conversation with あなた when it is not required (ie. group work in school etc), he likes you.
9. If あなた casually mention your boyfriend and he takes longer than usual to reply または add on to the conversation, he likes you.
10. If あなた think あなた are polar opposites and he keeps initiating conversation with you, he likes you.
11. If he acts different towards あなた than anybody else, even guys lol, he likes you.
How do あなた let him know to make a move:
1. Give a subtle/cheeky smile and a quick/little wave - if he doesn't act on it he is definitely not interested
2. Ask of his future plans (ie. for the weekend etc) and when he is free. If he responds using the word "nothing", he is interested. All あなた have to say is "me too" with an awkward silence after, he should ask あなた out.
3. Initiate conversation when no other フレンズ are around. With no pressure he should talk freely. A simple "Hey. It's freezing/roasting today isn't it?" should do the trick.
あなた should also know:
1. Shy guys don't reject girls harshly, we would rather make up a polite excuse as to why we would not go out with her.
So to conclude, I hople this helps girls that are unsure about us. The best アドバイス I can give is approach us when there are no peers around.
C ya.