please help. my friend and i are fighting over a guy we both like and he likes both of us too. what do i do?

 lilys_love_12 posted 1年以上前
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crazykitteh said:
Okay, if some guy is better than your best friend FOREVER, than obviously your "bff" realy isn't your bff. Your bff should always comes first. Your bff should be like a sister not a person あなた fight with, she isn't your enemy, is she?

If あなた fight constantally over him, apperantlly あなた would rather have somebody who you'll maybe spend a 年 または two with and after that, あなた most likely won't have your BFF.

Rember love

Life has chances.
Only forgive.
Varities of good things come to the good.
Everyone deserves a good BFF.
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posted 1年以上前 
FlightofFantasy said:
Bros before hos, man. または in this case, girls before guys. A guy's no reason to break up a friendship.
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posted 1年以上前 
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yes i know this but this fight was bad and i 愛 this guy and idk.. i mean it was not a mouth fight it was hiting. i almost killed my bff over a guy that i love! i had him fight and then she comes and tries to take him from me. it makes me so mad
lilys_love_12 posted 1年以上前
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exactly, me and my friend liked the same guy and we jsut promiced eachotehr that it would break us up as sister bffs and we are still REALLY close フレンズ today!!!!!!
lolibarbie posted 1年以上前
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I agree with summerlynn1978 and crazykitteh
KnougeChick posted 1年以上前
Alexander_Rybak said:
Friendship is much もっと見る important then a boy!

によって the way I think he is not a good person cuz he loves both of you!
Don't lose フレンズ cuz of a boy
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posted 1年以上前 
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tou are totally right sasusaku-fan
summerlynn1978 posted 1年以上前
sasusaku-fan said:
If あなた are hitting your friend that is really bad.
And in this kind of fight あなた always pick your friend before a guy because most likely あなた will break up with this guy in some months and あなた wont have a bff. so tell me is a boyfriend for afew months better than a bff forever?
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posted 1年以上前 
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well this guy and i dated befor and he asked me to marry him and thats what made me brake up with him bcuz i ddnt know what to think of it and now we want to got back with echother but my "friend" is pulling us apart. i rele so 愛 him. he means alot to me. and she triped me today in the hall @school and i just keeped walking then she ran and jumped on me and errg lol.
lilys_love_12 posted 1年以上前
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I say あなた should go up to this boy with your bff and settle this immediatly.
hidan_akatsuki posted 1年以上前
arianaggs said:
i guess we maybe been there but i had it much esayer then あなた i well went go with him and then best friend went go with him but i didn't 愛 him

あなた have to talk with your friend talk it out, if あなた say あなた 愛 him and want to go out with him あなた should talk with your friend and even do あなた know how she feels about him?
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posted 1年以上前 
Twilight_Dream said:
well i see it this way, its either the guy または the friend. あなた cant have both and everything be fine and dandy. and if the guy likes both of you, what makes あなた so sure that he wouldnt cheat on one of あなた with the other? i think the guys isnt worth it.
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posted 1年以上前 
Alexina123 said:
Wait, he asked あなた to marry him and you're only at school? あなた must be like 16 または under? Obviously he was joking about the marriage then! Seriously, if he really loved あなた he wouldn't let あなた fight with your best friend. Chances are you're gonna break up with him sooner または later and then あなた won't have a best friend. I would ALWAYS choose my best friend over some boy I like/love または whatever. That's what true フレンズ do. Sit down with your friend and talk about it. Stop all this fighting because it's getting あなた no where at all. I've got a boyfriend at the moment and as much as I 愛 him if he started to do all this stuff like fancy my best friend then I wouldn't put up with it...No matter how much I like him. I 愛 my best friend so I would definitely choose her. The reason she's probably fighting back as well is because she's obviously mad, I can't blame her for being mad! But ask yourself, do あなた really wanna loose your best friend? You've probably known them longer than this boy. So, really, choose carefully または you'll be about to loose someone really special to you.
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posted 1年以上前 
Lizzy-ILoveJB said:
U shouldn't let guy ruin yr friendship! If u really like the guy, talk to yr friend! If she's so upset, c 鍬 that guy likes, you, または yr friend! Problem sollved!!!!
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posted 1年以上前 
lilhardgirl said:
he sould pick one of yall. if he picks u she need to understand n if he picks her u need to understand to be there for eachother ok
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posted 1年以上前 
babyV101 said:
well it depends on how much あなた like the guy and how much あなた wanna keep あなた freindship
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posted 1年以上前 
mrsbieber19 said:
talk to your friend and talk to that guy
youll figure it out

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posted 1年以上前 
smacfan13 said:
Either have a contest to see who he likes もっと見る または don't even bother with him.You shouldn't let a guy come in between a good freindshp.
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posted 1年以上前 
meyouus2 said:
Me an my best friend have been fighting over a boy here resently.
And i suggest that あなた guys just need to promise to eac other that あなた to are もっと見る important then any boy could ever be.

And good luck! <3
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posted 1年以上前 
Gokussj173 said:
If あなた truly want to get this guy, just work on it. And never give up. Its totally up to him, whom will he choose. And as for your friend, if she's your true friend, she'll not oppose あなた but will try to get this guy being honest and she'll not kill the friendship. If she's not, then get ready to handle a real bitch! But in the end, its totally up to the boy...
AND あなた also need to see if the guy's good または not! あなた can't fight with your friend for an asshole!
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posted 1年以上前 
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