My boyfriend is older than me

My bf is 26 and I'm 14 he lives I'n ky n I live I'n co he has a brain anersyum and he has till feb and it's nov:( I really need some アドバイス on brain anersyum and the age and stuff I'm it's 12 years and it can work I just need help with the brain anersyum advice

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*Thumbs up* Right place! xD
Janay_Martin posted 1年以上前
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And 14 and 26? Dude! WTH?! He could hurt you! O:
Janay_Martin posted 1年以上前
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But I can't just TRUST you. I know あなた BELIEVE that, but the only reason あなた have to believe that is what he has told you. And あなた WANT to trust him, so あなた do. But I'm sorry - I can't do that.
Cinders posted 1年以上前
 snowbunny28 posted 1年以上前
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Cinders said:
Listen to me very carefully. This man is not your boyfriend. I am assuming based on the distance between あなた that あなた met this person on the internet. I am also assuming あなた talk to him a lot, and he has probably gained your trust. Now he's told あなた that he has a brain aneurysm and only has three months to live. Sweetie, that's what we call a "red flag." Actually, honestly, a 26-year-old man asking a 14-year-old to be his "girlfriend" is also what we call a "red flag." Do your parents know about this communication? I'm guessing not. So why are あなた hiding it from them? Is it because あなた know they would disapprove? Sometimes, parents aren't just annoying and disapproving for the sake of it. Most of the time, they have your best interest at heart.

Please do not engage in any suggestive conversations with this man または send him any photographs of yourself (even "normal" photos, like your school pictures). If he says anything inappropriate, do not respond. In fact, あなた should レポート him.

あなた are fourteen-years-old. I understand that あなた think you're in love, but I hope you understand that this person is trying to take advantage of you. I am not trying to be insensitive または disregard your feelings. I am genuinely concerned for your well-being. The internet is a dangerous place, and あなた have to know how to be safe. Please do not 日付 anyone over the internet, at least until あなた are eighteen. It's incredibly unsafe.

Finally - あなた wanted to know about brain aneurysms, here's what I know. Onset is sudden, and usually without warning, and the real danger occurs when they rupture, which cannot be predicted. That means it's not exactly a "six months to live" prognosis. Which only further underlines my point that this is not someone who deserves your trust. Tell your parents.

I'm reposting this because I think this is a very serious issue, and I hope あなた understand that I'm not trying to upset あなた または freak あなた out, but I think this is a really dangerous situation. I know あなた think he's trustworthy and あなた think you're in love, but あなた can't see the whole picture. He's clearly lied to あなた at least once about his illness. What else has he lied about? Tell your parents.
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posted 1年以上前 
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no im not telling them and he hasent lied to me about hes illeness
snowbunny28 posted 1年以上前
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And your calm, rational, response and the language あなた used shows exactly how mature and ready for such a relationship あなた really are. 17 is legal in some states/countries. But proof of maturity and understanding comes from how we behave, not how old we are.
Cinders posted 1年以上前
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Yes あなた are right sorry about my language I was bored (:
Dyfedik45 posted 1年以上前
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adultswimperson said:
Ok, here are 3 things I have to say about this.

1. Not everything he says is true, lies over the internet can happen.

2. Why are あなた dating somebody that's years appart from あなた when he could be a 50 年 old pervert?
(This isn't a dating website einstein)

3. A 26 年 old dating a minor is illegal in many states so it isn't going to last long between あなた two.
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posted 1年以上前 
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Dating is NOT illegal... :/ Having sex is.
KissOfDoom posted 1年以上前
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@KissOfDoom, Both of them are illegal, I would know this.
adultswimperson posted 1年以上前
ninjacupcake88 said:
I'm sorry... but I didn't understand what あなた were trying to say...
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posted 1年以上前 
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im just wondering if u know anyone who has had a brani anersyum
snowbunny28 posted 1年以上前
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to see if u know anyone who has a brain anersyum
snowbunny28 posted 1年以上前
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if あなた look up brain anersyum it should come up that is where i found most my info
hannamary posted 1年以上前
Kackahaluzova said:
Well I won't help あなた with that brain thing but I think he's too old. If あなた would be at least 17, 18 it would be better but this is really weird.
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posted 1年以上前 
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Well I 愛 him
snowbunny28 posted 1年以上前
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I know but sometimes あなた can't have all あなた want. I'm in similar situation right now.
Kackahaluzova posted 1年以上前
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Well she did not 愛 me, she only want sex from me, so yeah I was done with her. Im daten a worthy, trusting, beautiful, lady that is 26, the thing is my parents choose the girl for me now, so I cant choose
Dyfedik45 posted 1年以上前
loveandpain said:
well go ask a doter online and the age thing 愛 has no bondries soooo ya im 16 and was just dateing a 22 yearold a mounth 前 i think its fine if he truly loves ya hun
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posted 1年以上前 
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Nice, U rock loveandpain
Dyfedik45 posted 1年以上前
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:) thank u guys and Ik he does people just have stereotypes
snowbunny28 posted 1年以上前
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