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Cinders said:
Listen to me very carefully. This man is not your boyfriend. I am assuming based on the distance between あなた that あなた met this person on the internet. I am also assuming あなた talk to him a lot, and he has probably gained your trust. Now he's told あなた that he has a brain aneurysm and only has three months to live. Sweetie, that's what we call a "red flag." Actually, honestly, a 26-year-old man asking a 14-year-old to be his "girlfriend" is also what we call a "red flag." Do your parents know about this communication? I'm guessing not. So why are あなた hiding it from them? Is it because あなた know they would disapprove? Sometimes, parents aren't just annoying and disapproving for the sake of it. Most of the time, they have your best interest at heart. Please do not engage in any suggestive conversations with this man または send him any photographs of yourself (even "normal" photos, like your school pictures). If he says anything inappropriate, do not respond. In fact, あなた should レポート him. あなた are fourteen-years-old. I understand that あなた think you're in love, but I hope you understand that this person is trying to take advantage of you. I am not trying to be insensitive または disregard your feelings. I am genuinely concerned for your well-being. The internet is a dangerous place, and あなた have to know how to be safe. Please do not 日付 anyone over the internet, at least until あなた are eighteen. It's incredibly unsafe. Finally - あなた wanted to know about brain aneurysms, here's what I know. Onset is sudden, and usually without warning, and the real danger occurs when they rupture, which cannot be predicted. That means it's not exactly a "six months to live" prognosis. Which only further underlines my point that this is not someone who deserves your trust. Tell your parents. I'm reposting this because I think this is a very serious issue, and I hope あなた understand that I'm not trying to upset あなた または freak あなた out, but I think this is a really dangerous situation. I know あなた think he's trustworthy and あなた think you're in love, but あなた can't see the whole picture. He's clearly lied to あなた at least once about his illness. What else has he lied about? Tell your parents.
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