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pffff:))) another "advice" problem over here:/:/please...help:)


lay back and sit comfortable...I know this kind of アドバイス problem is being repeated and I was sometimes answering them but ...I tried and I cant give アドバイス to myself:)) I dont know what to.."think",precisely.
umm let me start with the 質問 :
what does it mean?
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So, this year,Im in yr9.... I went to a new school and came in the same time with a new guy: "Markos".
at first I didnt even think about him but then I had a really weird dream with us hugging and kissing.
the problem is...his just the really bad-guy:)))
the smoker and druggy guy who get's into the principal's office quite alot.
in lesson's I caught him staring a couple of times and now it's just akward...
1.the staring
2.the smiling
3.the...akwardness when we stay 次 to eachother.
it's obvious I kinda..fell for him and my フレンズ say we two match...pff:)))
ummm...but 2 days 前
he コメントしました something..which I didnt quite understand I thought he was somewhat saying something bad...
and I said: "Markos its not your business<.< または something like that (as I 発言しました it in my language)
and...I was expecting him to start swearing like guys usually do but he just looked at me while I looked at him...nasty
my friend started shouting at me as she thinks he 発言しました it as" defending me"(the subject doesnt matter it was a conv. with a teacher about a mark)
and the staring continued...

I thought of giving リスペクト for help but wouldnt that be "forced help"
I mean if someone wants to give me an アドバイス he/she shouldnt expect something back...right?:)
so...whoever has the patience to read this please help me:)
 R33n33sm3 posted １年以上前
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MissKnowItAll said:
I think he likes you. That's very clear.

The real thing is whether あなた should go for it.

あなた say he is a smoker and whatnot. If it were me, I'd take it very slowly. A friendship first etc. Smoking isn't a bad thing (drugs are complicated- let's cover that some other time), but あなた need to determine if he is 'safe'. And I don't mean 安全, 安全です as in 'cool'. I mean 安全, 安全です as in could he ever harm you?

Having 発言しました that, it seems he was defending あなた with the thing with the teacher etc. I'd conclude there that he is rather gentle, but maybe protective. That was probably a good thing for him to do.

The main thing with this is that everything is on the fence. Those are my opinions, but あなた need to follow your gut and instinct.

Remember, if his 'bad' side does come out in a relationship, あなた MUST tell someone.
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posted １年以上前 
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woaw...gee....thanks that really helped me alot! *votes best answer*
R33n33sm3 posted １年以上前
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Thank you. ID
MissKnowItAll posted １年以上前
klarissa03 said:
like whats the problem.? i.m sorry....but i dident understand
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posted １年以上前 
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ya ditto...
CullenProperty posted １年以上前
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its ok:) I guess Im not a good explainer,my problem is tht I dont know what to do and I dont know if he likes me または not;)
R33n33sm3 posted １年以上前
ruby1000 said:
I think that he likes you. Hang out with him もっと見る become friends. I don't really understand the whole conversation thingy but if あなた offended him または confused him in relation to your feelings then あなた should clear that up.
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posted １年以上前 
Snerkie said:
Firstly; あなた shouldn't judge someone if they smoke または do drugs, they can be the nicest person and that sort of stuff is a changable trait.
Secondly; あなた may be misinterpreting the "staring". He could potentially be stoned :\

Your young though so the important thing is if あなた do like him don't try and get into his "clique" of drugs and stuff just to get closer to him または get him to like you. Just talk to him normally as あなた are, don't take notice of the staring and such, just talk and you'll figure out if he likes あなた もっと見る than a friend または is just a defensive person. (also don't always believe your friends, they just want to convince あなた of something even if it's not true, they're not being mean just wanting あなた to be happy)
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posted １年以上前 
FearlessSinger said:
He probably likes you. But don't get to close to him cuz the smoking and drugs are something あなた want to stay away from. Find out what he is REALLY like: What he does outside of school, if he has a girlfriend または two(you know what I mean), if he's just a player, ect. Don't fall for him to easily cuz he could just be playing あなた in his stupid game. Watch out for him. And don't get pressured into doing drugs and stuff.
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