2.Gauge your date’s reaction to you. You'll need to do this quickly as the goodbye-kiss window doesn’t stay open for long. If you’re walking your 日付 ホーム and they don’t let あなた get that close to the door, take this physical distancing as a sign that a goodnight キッス isn't such a great idea. If (s)he is eager to get the keys in the door, this too is a bad sign. Other red lights can include clamped lips または a stubborn refusal to make eye contact. However, there’s a good chance that the signs won’t be as obvious as this. To give yourself the advantage in the moment, learn how to read body language so that あなた can act fast and avoid any mishaps. Only make a 移動する if あなた feel all is right.
3.Make a “moment.” Remember that in every goodnight キッス scenario, you've got a limited window of opportunity to make your move. Create an "awkward pause" in the conversation. Studies 表示する that people are uncomfortable with gaps of silence in conversation, so fill it with a smile and get ready to 移動する in for a kiss.
4.Maintain eye contact. If your 日付 steadily returns your gaze, consider it an invitation to smooch. If (s)he tries to maintain eye contact but breaks it before anything can happen, chalk it up to nervousness and try to create another “moment” if it isn’t too late.
5.Move in for the kiss. Keep it simple, especially if this is your first キッス with your date. This means no tongue または special moves; just turn your head slightly to the side, lean in slowly, and rock his または her world! あなた can place your hand on the small of their neck if あなた wish.
If your 日付 is enthusiastic, あなた may be able to turn the simple smooch into a longer, もっと見る involved kiss. However, only do this if あなた feel very confident about the cues you’re being given; when in doubt, err on the side of キス too little, as it’s better to leave them wanting もっと見る than to make them regret キス あなた in the first place.
If あなた get the dreaded cheek turn, briefly apologize, laugh it off, and leave with your dignity intact.
6.Repeat if desired, または if あなた feel your 日付 getting into it. This may lead to being invited inside, but don't count on it
Tips
-If it seems like your 日付 is waiting for a while to go inside, キッス her. She wants あなた to.
-If あなた feel your 日付 trying to 移動する away または say "No," don’t press the issue. Simply ask if (s)he's okay; if the answer is "nothing" または your 日付 has to think about it, just say goodnight, as your 日付 probably isn’t comfortable enough to admit it’s too soon to kiss. Never force a goodnight キッス on someone.
-Add コメント such as "Tonight was amazing" または "I hope we can do this again sometime" (and 表示する her that あなた mean it) to make him/her feel special.
-When you're walking away, give a little glance back - chances are she'll be watching あなた go.
-If あなた want to be extra cute あなた could even キッス her hand または forehead, but be wary of the forehead キッス as some girls find it patronizing または granddad-like.
Warning
-If your 日付 is facing the other way, do not grab his または her head and turn it to face あなた for the kiss. This is pushy and unromantic.
-Be wary of giving a goodnight (or first) キッス in front of friends, whether they’re yours または your date’s; this is meant to be a sweet and private moment, so keep it as exclusive as possible.
-Don't just go around キス anyone, anytime! あなた may be charged with sexual assault if あなた 移動する too aggressively.
