It's the same situation as any other individual. To be general it all depends on あなた if it will be hard または not, and also depends on the situation your in in life.
If あなた are really picky, which basically means that あなた have to 日付 another goth, it could be a bit difficult. Simply because the 全体, 全体的です human population is not goth. But still, I guess that they are enough goths around to date...
On the other hand, if あなた want to 日付 a non-goth, it could be even もっと見る difficult, because not every non-goth would accept your "gothiness"...
To your 秒 point: no, あなた do not need to have a romantic partner to be a "proper goth" または just a "proper human being".
P.S: "True love" is a vague term. I'd like to think that is exists, but I tend not to believe in it.
maybe... Personally a had a situation when a boy who I liked told me that I am frightening. But I think that someone who couldn't accept my style couldn't be a really good partner for me. But I belive that if someone (even if she/he is a goth または not) searches really hard she/he will find the True Love. :)