If it's a little もっと見る complicated than that, and forgiving her becomes a chore on your to do 一覧 first decide if a fixer is really the best way to stop up the steam coming out of your ears. 質問 Was this a premedirated Ice クイーン 移動する または was she totally unaware she'd driven a stake through your heart? Was this the first time your friend did whatever she did to make あなた mad, または does she do this to あなた all the time: For a repeat offender see Fight Fixer No 10: If your friend's offense was a first-time flub, why not chalk it up to a she's - only - human mistake and forget about it? Turning the other check on her out-of-character moment is mega nature and will help あなた "walk away" mentally, which miraculously squalishes the drama you're feeling emotionally. In other words, don't do darn things. If only finals were this easy.
Yes, fighting is bad, fighting is immature, fighting is painful. But that doesn't mean it isn't a good option. But let's get this straight. Sure you're going to fight, but you're not going to パンチ bite pull hair, scratch, slap faces, whack windbreakers on each others bare backs of do any thing associated with cheesy car fights. Instead you're going to have a 枕 fight, screaming. "This is for when あなた mined my new blouse" または "I hate it when あなた flint with my boyfriend" with each swing. Get out those aggressions, girl. It a 枕 fight doesn't work for あなた maybe get two boys involved and have a chicken fight on their shoulders in a pool. The point is to fight to end the fight, without ugly bite marks on あなた arms of an eyeball that feels like it's been scooped out with a spoon Touche.
This Fixer is about working it out によって working out. You're both going to sweat it out side によって side until あなた decide together when enough is enough. A little healthy competition will replace the spat you're having our who did what and whos fight and all that other pop-pycock. Race around the school track, do pull-ups, push-ups, sit-ups, counting around, until one of あなた drops. When you're sweaty fatigued sick of it all say, "I'm sick of it all especially being in a fight with you" Ten bucks says she'll share her Gatorade in agreement........................... ..........................................................
Who's going to juzz this big bairy attitude brawill; あなた are she is Oh! want hell her it's time to deal, and ask her to come to your house in cruddy clothes. Saturday affternoon, Pre-date, birst open your piggy bank and buy two dozen eggs and two キャンディー bars. When she arrives, give her a dozen eggs and yourself a dozen and have an egg toss in the "" yard. 'Win' によって operating and throwing the egg right at her T-shirt または jeans, If she looks at あなた like you've cracked, 'egg' her on to your head. If you're both nor covered in egg and laughing within a few minutes, あなた blew this assignment. The キャンディー bars are for あなた guys to eat afterward as あなた glow in renewed friendship, and yolk.
What do あなた do if you're so completely over this rift between あなた two yet, she still won't cave; it's tempting to want to bail from the friendship and let her wallow in her stubborn anger. But that's the easy way out if あなた think you've done your share in trying to mend the situation you're probably right. But あなた can't force her into anything. So, you'll wait. Try not to bold it against her if she needs もっと見る time than あなた to cool off. She'll come around and when she does then あなた use one of the following Friend Fight Fixers to bury the batchet.
Say あなた tried a Fight Fixer but despite your best efforts: you're still not over it. We'll call this "right residue," which is just mistrust wearing an everythings OK now mask. There's a China-sized crack of doubt that she might let あなた down again または maybe she's a tiny bit worried you're Luckily あなた can swat away these emotional mosquitoes with a contract. On a piece of white paper use black pen to write a 一覧 of ways あなた promise to be good to each other. Then carefully tear the perimerer so all sides are rough-edged. Scranch the paper into a ball unscranch it and dip it in room temperature お茶, 紅茶 until it's an old looking yellow color Gently lay it out flat in the sun and when it's dry, you'll have an official homemade. Bill of Friendship Rights Suggestion. Make two so あなた don't fight over who gets to keep it.
Depending on what's gone down, a formal apology may be the only way your friend can atone for her sins. If あなた need a sincere "I'm sorry" to get over her infraction that's OK. But あなた might have to ask for it. She can't read your mind and changes are she feels bad about the fight too. こんにちは maybe she's reaching Friend Fight Fixers through 5 right now trying to map out her apology strategy. Make it easy for her. Send an e-mail explaining that あなた just needed to know it won't happen against so it's she were to apologize and mad make a propreties that'd he enough for you.
All right, you're upset, Maybe you're furning. Maybe you'd like to brand your friend's hair in an industrial blender. That's fine. Let yourself be But be mad in a pair of running shoes while あなた jog a mile. Be mad at your 枕 while あなた pulyerize those teeny inner. Cruellar on your friend because that can create mutual madness which would really blow things beyond proportion. The heat of your feelings: will cool down and, when you're done seeing red, simply call Miss Knuckle head and tell her what's up: Did あなた know あなた really bummed me out the other 日 when あなた blurted my business in front of everyone? Can あなた promise not to do it again? Great, thinks Enough said.
That's right. 飲み込む your pride, and let it slide - even though あなた absolutely, posilutely know for sure that あなた did so pay her brick the five bucks あなた borrowed from her. She's peeved, and you're left wondering if she's having a brain lapse または something. So why should あなた say "sorry" and シャワー her with gifts, darn it" Well, let's put this in perspective, shall we Look is it really worth losing a friend over a five-spot: Offer up a hard-to-resist compromise" "I'll tell あなた what let's searf down five dollars worth of Baskin Robbins, my treat, and call it even Steven." If she insists on having it her way cough up the $5 and consider it an investment in the freidnship. Even if she is having a brain lapse she's your bud and was nice enough to float あなた the moolah to begin with. Oh, and 次 time あなた pay her back on a loan ask for a receipt Nicely.
For some girls, gifts are the way to go. It may sound totally materialistic but こんにちは she's your friend and, some bud can be bribed as we all know! If it takes a little sweet nothing to get her to stop scrunching her face at あなた as あなた pass in the halls, then get to it. What won't work? Easy to-get-gifts like a "nice" candle または frame. Sorry What will work? A framed picture of the two of あなた in better times. または a candle あなた made just for her at one of those fun craft-making stores. All other gift ideals are subject to details only あなた know about your friend. The もっと見る personal, the better: ラップ your package in homemade wrapping paper (sponge-paint some plain, white paper), and present it ti her in private With any luck she'll be unable to fight back those fears of joy
Sometimes a thousand words aren't worth jack. または maybe you're not a word person, which means saying または 書く an apology would be like hiking up バナナ Reel Mountain in six inch stilcttols. Non-word people are usually either visual-artsy または have a thing for math. And since calculating a serious algebra equation isn't all that heart-warming (unless you're watching Good Will Hunting), this is for the art lovingal. Draw paint, sketch a picture that screamer. "You're awesome and I'm such a Party McBee for もっと見る seeing the hurtfulness of what I did" Mount the picture または a piece of poster board and at the 上, ページのトップへ center expertly write her name in oversized block letters, Deliver it to her with a smile. If your masterpiece doesn't muster peace, it's back to the drawing board, Lady Picasso. Read on
Heart-to-heart talks stink like dog doo. That's not the 人気 opinion - especially if あなた tune in to the 7th Haven または any of those hokey 映画 on TV's Lifetime network for women -- but it's a realistic truth for plenty of people. Too many emotionally charged chats are just nerve - annihilating yuvky, muscfests of overly sensitive feelings. あなた have to tell her why あなた wish あなた could turn the Erch a Sketch of your wrongdoing event upside down. But since あなた can't send a letter to get it through her noggin how great she is, how much あなた cherrish her, how あなた are - from now until you're both grannies - going to be sensitive to whatever it is she's upset about. Put it on pretty stationery, and カタツムリ mail in with cutsie stickers and a pool stump. She should call the 分 she reads it.
When a friend lets あなた know she's upset about something you've 発言しました または done (or she thought あなた 発言しました または did), it's up to あなた to clear the air. Even if it's a misunderstanding - wait, especially if it's a misunderstanding - you've gotta step up to the apology plate. Admitting you're wrong isn't easy, but if あなた do a hat dance around her now sensitive feelings, the drama will just grow. To deliver a sincere apology, look your friend in the eye and tell her. "I am so sorry." Now hug, cry, do what あなた do, then go eat something atery-clogging and talk about not-so-serious, stuff, like celebs and makeup: You've had enough serious discussion for one afternoon.
1 point
Let the argument simmer for a while, によって leaving it alone, and avoiding communication. If あなた talk right after the fight, many things are 発言しました out of anger. However, do not wait too long as allowing bad feelings to brew for too long creates a situation that becomes もっと見る difficult to make up. So after the fight calms down, make sure あなた talk to the person before its too late. After あなた do that, sit down and say your sorry if あなた the one who caused the fight. Even if it was the other persons fault, just take the blame so あなた will make up sooner than later.
2 point
Take time to reconsider if this person is really a friend if you're constantly in fights and always making up first
3 point
Reflect on what あなた may have done. Read past emails, chats ect. This will help あなた understand their point of view.
4 point
Give in and apologize. The other person probably wants to do it too, but it shows that you're a courageous and dedicated friend.
Let the argument simmer for a while, によって leaving it alone, and avoiding communication. If あなた talk right after the fight, many things are 発言しました out of anger. However, do not wait too long as allowing bad feelings to brew for too long creates a situation that becomes もっと見る difficult to make up. So after the fight calms down, make sure あなた talk to the person before its too late. After あなた do that, sit down and say your sorry if あなた the one who caused the fight. Even if it was the other persons fault, just take the blame so あなた will make up sooner than later.
2 point
Take time to reconsider if this person is really a friend if you're constantly in fights and always making up first
3 point
Reflect on what あなた may have done. Read past emails, chats ect. This will help あなた understand their point of view.
4 point
Give in and apologize. The other person probably wants to do it too, but it shows that you're a courageous and dedicated friend.