The Key To Speed Dating
The key to speed dating is being honest and asking the right 質問 of your partner. What are some good speed dating questions?
The types of 質問 あなた ask depends on the type of person あなた are and the type of person you’re looking for.
There are a few unique 質問 that I’ve had success with, and work no who あなた are または who you’re looking for. Start out with some of these もっと見る generic 質問 before turning the conversation to your specific personality type.
“You’re cooking ディナー for a friend and あなた burned the main course. What do あなた do?”
This is a coy way of determining if your speed 日付 is down to earth または a wound-up manic type of person.
“If あなた could travel to your own past and correct a mistake you’ve made, would あなた do it?”
This 質問 avoids asking about the specific mistake and instead will give あなた a general idea of the person’s attitude toward life.
“Who was your hero as a child?”
This 質問 can tell あなた もっと見る about a person than it might seem — あなた may find out that someone is a religious fanatic, または that they have a political leaning that あなた don’t share. あなた may also find that this 質問 leads to other interesting questions, または can really break the ice if someone is nervous.
speed-dating-questionsOnce you’ve asked a couple of generic information gathering questions, it would be wise to begin probing for your specific likes and dislikes. For example, if you’re an intellectual type, and are only interested in dating people with similar mental pursuits, tailor your 質問 to that end.
“What is the last book that あなた read?”
“What newspapers または online news sites do あなた follow?”
“Who is your お気に入り philosopher?”
These kinds of 質問 will let your potential 日付 know that あなた are interested in smart partners, and could filter out many potential bad dates well in advance.
If you’re the adventurous type, ask 質問 along these lines:
“If あなた had a roundtrip ticket to any exotic location in the world, where would あなた go?”
“What is an extreme sport you’ve always wanted to try?”
“If あなた could be ロスト in the desert, the rainforest, または at sea, which would あなた choose?”
If the person you’re speed dating has no answer または seems disinterested, they may not be willing to カヤック with あなた on the weekend, または visit a wartorn country that’s perfect for off the map snowboarding. あなた can decide then and there that they’re too boring for you.
Say, for instance, that you’re looking for long term love, not a flash in the pan romance. Get to the point によって posing 質問 that relate to lasting relationships.
“What are your feelings on marriage?”
“Do あなた tend to be monogamous?”
“How many girlfriends/boyfriends have あなた had in the last two years?”
The 回答 to these questions, and the reactions to them, will let あなた know if the person across the 表, テーブル from あなた is in it for the long haul, または just looking for a one night stand.
Besides asking the right kind of questions, preparing for a speed 日付 will help あなた in enjoying yourself on a speed dating expedition while simultaneously learning enough about someone to decide if あなた want to pursue a 日付 with them.
1. Prepare A 一覧 of 質問 Beforehand
If you’re worried you’ll “forget to ask the right thing” または that you’ll run out of time before あなた get the 回答 you’re looking for, there is nothing wrong with bringing a short 一覧 of questions, または even shorthand reminders of questions, to help あなた on the way. Preparing a 一覧 may even make あなた もっと見る appealing to certain kinds of people, who will appreciate your ability to plan ahead.
2. Try For Originality
Remember that your speed dating partners are meeting many people in one night. The もっと見る original your 質問 are, while still being specific and appropriate, the もっと見る あなた will stand out among the crowd.
3. Relax And Have Fun
Speed dating, as with all dating, is supposed to be an enjoyable experience. If you’re too uptight, あなた will be unattractive to most people.
The key to speed dating is being honest and asking the right 質問 of your partner. What are some good speed dating questions?
The types of 質問 あなた ask depends on the type of person あなた are and the type of person you’re looking for.
There are a few unique 質問 that I’ve had success with, and work no who あなた are または who you’re looking for. Start out with some of these もっと見る generic 質問 before turning the conversation to your specific personality type.
“You’re cooking ディナー for a friend and あなた burned the main course. What do あなた do?”
This is a coy way of determining if your speed 日付 is down to earth または a wound-up manic type of person.
“If あなた could travel to your own past and correct a mistake you’ve made, would あなた do it?”
This 質問 avoids asking about the specific mistake and instead will give あなた a general idea of the person’s attitude toward life.
“Who was your hero as a child?”
This 質問 can tell あなた もっと見る about a person than it might seem — あなた may find out that someone is a religious fanatic, または that they have a political leaning that あなた don’t share. あなた may also find that this 質問 leads to other interesting questions, または can really break the ice if someone is nervous.
speed-dating-questionsOnce you’ve asked a couple of generic information gathering questions, it would be wise to begin probing for your specific likes and dislikes. For example, if you’re an intellectual type, and are only interested in dating people with similar mental pursuits, tailor your 質問 to that end.
“What is the last book that あなた read?”
“What newspapers または online news sites do あなた follow?”
“Who is your お気に入り philosopher?”
These kinds of 質問 will let your potential 日付 know that あなた are interested in smart partners, and could filter out many potential bad dates well in advance.
If you’re the adventurous type, ask 質問 along these lines:
“If あなた had a roundtrip ticket to any exotic location in the world, where would あなた go?”
“What is an extreme sport you’ve always wanted to try?”
“If あなた could be ロスト in the desert, the rainforest, または at sea, which would あなた choose?”
If the person you’re speed dating has no answer または seems disinterested, they may not be willing to カヤック with あなた on the weekend, または visit a wartorn country that’s perfect for off the map snowboarding. あなた can decide then and there that they’re too boring for you.
Say, for instance, that you’re looking for long term love, not a flash in the pan romance. Get to the point によって posing 質問 that relate to lasting relationships.
“What are your feelings on marriage?”
“Do あなた tend to be monogamous?”
“How many girlfriends/boyfriends have あなた had in the last two years?”
The 回答 to these questions, and the reactions to them, will let あなた know if the person across the 表, テーブル from あなた is in it for the long haul, または just looking for a one night stand.
Besides asking the right kind of questions, preparing for a speed 日付 will help あなた in enjoying yourself on a speed dating expedition while simultaneously learning enough about someone to decide if あなた want to pursue a 日付 with them.
1. Prepare A 一覧 of 質問 Beforehand
If you’re worried you’ll “forget to ask the right thing” または that you’ll run out of time before あなた get the 回答 you’re looking for, there is nothing wrong with bringing a short 一覧 of questions, または even shorthand reminders of questions, to help あなた on the way. Preparing a 一覧 may even make あなた もっと見る appealing to certain kinds of people, who will appreciate your ability to plan ahead.
2. Try For Originality
Remember that your speed dating partners are meeting many people in one night. The もっと見る original your 質問 are, while still being specific and appropriate, the もっと見る あなた will stand out among the crowd.
3. Relax And Have Fun
Speed dating, as with all dating, is supposed to be an enjoyable experience. If you’re too uptight, あなた will be unattractive to most people.
