(PLEASE HELP ASAP) Do あなた think it's weird for me to have a crush that has lasted 2 years and 9 months? (it's my first cush and I have had it for that long. I can't get over this guy!)

I have liked him (Mike Sanchez) for 2 years and 9 months and all my フレンズ are all like "OMG! That long! I think あなた need to get over him. It's been almost 3 years and あなた STILL like him! あなた should tell him. Anyways, there is only a few days of school left."

So I don't know what to do. PLEASE HELP,

tnx!

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Im goin threw the same thing right now.
AngelG326 posted 1年以上前
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I'm in the same situation. It's not weird at all...it just mean あなた REALLY have feelings for this guy, not just some little girl crush
julialovesMJ posted 1年以上前
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ok, i thought it was werid cuz my フレンズ were all like ´´STILL!!!´´
busted posted 1年以上前
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vanillamoon08 said:
I don't think it's weird at all to like somebody for that long! I mean, a lot of people can argue with that, but 愛 is love, right? There's nothing あなた can do if あなた still like the person after two years または so.
However, I really think that あなた should tell him. This is kinda tricky since あなた only have a few days left of school, but maybe do あなた think that あなた can tell him somehow? Because, even though I think that it's okay to like a guy for a long time like that, I also feel that it's a long time to do something about it. I also realize that it's tricky in the sense that since you've liked him for so long, that あなた probably built up really strong feelings for him during that time, which means that if あなた tell him, and あなた get rejected, it might mean a big heartbreak for you. :( So, I want あなた to be careful, and keep in mind that there's always a chance that he might not be into you. But if he is, then that's great!!!!! :D

Okay, I have a story kind of similar to yours about my friend. She's liked this guy for nine years. Nine years. And she never told him. Nope. She barely talks to him, but she used to years ago. She's graduating from high school now, since she's a senior, but she's never had a boyfriend, または a first キッス yet, because she never moved on after nine years. I'm telling あなた this because I want あなた to see what can happen if あなた don't act out on a crush. :/ あなた can like somebody for that long, but let them know. :) For, if they like あなた back, あなた can be with them! But if they reject you, then あなた know to 移動する onto somebody who does like あなた for who あなた are. :)

So, basically, I think あなた should tell him somehow. Don't just blurt it out to him, but build up a conversation first so hell be less shocked. :) Good luck!!!! I hope this helped you.
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posted 1年以上前 
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thanks a lot! i already told him yesterday and he 発言しました he used to like me a 年 前 and he still inda likes me i think.
busted posted 1年以上前
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You're welcome! <3 And, ooohh okay. :/ If he liked あなた before, there could be chance that he may like あなた again. :) I think あなた should be フレンズ with him for now, and see where that goes. :D
vanillamoon08 posted 1年以上前
soffi said:
actually I don't think it's that bad if u really like him, some ppl just take some もっと見る time to get over someone so if u think it's ok then don't listen to ur friends!!
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posted 1年以上前 
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okay! thanks!
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InBieberzPantz said:
Totally NOT! i think that if あなた liked him for that long, あなた have something going for you...and I'VE ALSO LIKED A GUY FOR ABOUT 3 YEARS TOO:)SO dont worry, but i think that u should SIGN HIS YEARBOOK SAYING HOW YOU'VE HAD A CRUSH ON HIM<3 and PUT THAT あなた LIKE HIM(IF あなた GET YEARBOOKS)
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I told him I like him on the last 日 of school and he 発言しました "ok! Good!" then walked away. Then my freind 発言しました "let me get it on video" . So she borrowed my ipodの, ipod and made a video of me telling him. the first time i told him but the 秒 i didn't wanna say it again cuz i was scared to go again and i felt like a fool telling him that.
busted posted 1年以上前
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haha i made mi bff tell him he 発言しました just friendz tho but he flirts w/ me もっと見る now!!!
cassiluvsjustin posted 1年以上前
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awwwwww! i hope he likes u:) and thats such an adorable idea!
InBieberzPantz posted 1年以上前
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:)
busted posted 1年以上前
cassiluvsjustin said:
oh no!!!! thts nothing ve had a crush on this guy for 4 years he still dosent know its normal!!!
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posted 1年以上前 
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ok, thanks! i thought it was going to be weird!
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HaruLuver said:
Trust me that's not so bad. I've liked a guy for 8 years and I still like him. So I guess that's completely normal. Most of my フレンズ have liked someone for that long too. Your not alone.
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