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I really need help... (Loneliness Advice)

I've been really upset with myself about being shy for so long and it's gotten in the way of so many things. Wanting friends, a girlfriend, my dream job. I can barely even speak to my own parents. I'm tired of living like this and it's been this way ever since I was born. I've tried many things: boost my self esteem, be around socialable people, etc. None of it works. I'm a full-on Christian and I 愛 God very much, but why did he make me full of social anxiety and be so shy? It's so bad that I think if I commit suicide, no one would notice I'm gone. I've eveb been considering it to myself for the past few weeks to be honest. Just please help me... I don't want to be shy anymore!
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-777- posted 1年以上前
 -777- posted 1年以上前
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Diazdiaz95 said:
Please don't commit suicide. I was very shy too and I'm still really awkward in social situations sometimes and I used to feel very lonely too but I not only prayed about it, I got involved in things that interested me. I entered my school's 芝居 troupe and just busied myself doing what interested me. Soon enough, I had ロスト my stage fright and wasn't so shy around people. I started participating もっと見る in church as well. I stopped feeling that loneliness I once had and I started meeting different people and coming out of my shell. It is ok to be a little introverted but あなた can't let it control your life. The devil wants あなた to commit suicide so don't give in to that. Find out what あなた like about yourself and start building up courage to talk to people, it's fine if あなた feel nervous but just do it because あなた never know what my come out of it, maybe a friendship even. Find things あなた like to do like sports and arts that can keep あなた busy and help あなた come in contact with other people. Seek other Christians your age. I don't know who あなた are または even how old あなた are but I know that あなた have a purpose and your life is valuable. あなた have a friend in me, like in toy story:) Message me if あなた want.
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Remember, theirs a light at the end of every tunnel.
Diazdiaz95 posted 1年以上前
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Diazdiaz95 - this is a very good answer. -777- I agree with this - do not give up, seek フレンズ among those who are following the same bible principles as あなた do. Talk to us on line. Asking this 質問 is the first step - あなた have made at least 2 online フレンズ already.
MaxandMart posted 1年以上前
ITF said:
Things will get better. I am shy and have no フレンズ but the animals. I can't talk to people either, about all I can say is yes and no. What ever あなた do, don't kill yourself! The girl that あなた will marry one 日 is out there and フレンズ are not necessary. What about volunteering at a animal rescue? That helped me a lot. Also get a dog. I don't know what I would do without mine または what he would do without me. And a dog would always miss you.
And it might help if あなた did not watch または read about killing または other evil things.
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bratski2192 said:
Just pray, pray, pray, keep faith & trust in GOD. It's hard, but HE knows, not us. Trust in THE LORD, with ALL your heart, and lean not on thine own understanding; in ALL thy ways ACKNOWLEDGE HIM, AND HE SHALL DIRECT THY PATHS.~Proverbs 3:5-6 Keep that spark of hope no matter what!
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AnimeFan66 said:
First off, I think it is really, really great that あなた are trying so hard to get out into the world and experience things for the long haul. That is very great of you. The 秒 thing however is あなた shouldn't blame yourself または God for who あなた are. My mom told me that even though I have Autism, I am considered a gift によって God himself. I know it may seem silly, but it is the truth- she told me so. See, if あなた were to understand what I went through growing up then I'm sure あなた can relate to not only myself but other countless people who are going through the same difficulties. You're not alone after all- we all suffer from situations like this. But never be afraid okay? If あなた need someone to talk to あなた have your family there beside you. あなた also have people here and even some near あなた to comfort yourself and your soul. :) Be patient alright? I know it is difficult, but I think if あなた keep trying and trying than I'm sure you're dream of opening up to the real world will come true. And I also pray to God that あなた will soon open up and get over your shyness- I'll definitely pray for あなた tonight. God bless you.
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I do apologize for this answer being too long. :P
AnimeFan66 posted 1年以上前
ShadowFan100 said:
First off, God didn't make u with this stuff. A lot of this may be due to how u grew up. And since I'm talking....

I, too, feel like this sometimes. I grew up rather....isolated. Socially deprived and such, so I believe I can relate to this.

2nd, please don't kill yourself. あなた may miss a chance to speak out. Although, since ur struggling with this, あなた may need God's help here. Ask Him to help あなた out, give あなた what あなた need to be もっと見る confident.
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MNGRRL said:
あなた should always look to the Bible, Other than that just try talking to yourself in the mirror than 移動する on with be social from there.
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