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Stuck in the middle... Please help me!

Ok so I have quite a few friends, but 2 very special ones. The only problem is that they dont like eachother and r very competitive. Over me I mean. Everyday they bribe me with stuff so I can like one them the most and they tug my arms so hard I could be ripped in half! I like them equally, I really do. I tried to explain this to them but they just acted as if they never heard me! They'll do ANYTHING to make me like one of them the most. Eventually, i got really sick of them and completely broke up with both of them in such a dramatic way. Now they r really sorry to me and have even tried to get along for my forgiveness! (Im just still not sure if they r REALLY フレンズ yet tho)... half of me wants to forgive them, half of me doesn't. So... All i wanna know is.. Should I forgive and forget または just leave them for good?
 jamtart01 posted １年以上前
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gossipgirlstar2 said:
I think that first of all あなた must learn if they are really フレンズ so as not to do this again to you...If あなた see that they are pretending and they are doing this only for あなた to forgive them and then start all over I think that あなた should leave them for good because あなた can't change two people tha dislike each other...But if they are really フレンズ and care about you, あなた should forgive them... I think that it wouldn't be right if they
were pretending that they are フレンズ just to bring あなた back and then start arguing again...

I hope I helped...

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posted １年以上前 
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well thank u ill see what happens on monday :)
jamtart01 posted １年以上前
JustLikeSoul said:
I think あなた should wait for a time likehalf 月 ,maybe it is too long,leave them alone and see their behaviors without あなた and make your decision after that :)
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posted １年以上前 
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ohk
jamtart01 posted １年以上前
jedigal1990 said:
i personally think あなた should forgive them but let them know that what they did before is not going to be tolerated あなた can't make them be フレンズ and if their not thats still ok as long as they understand that they must respect that あなた like both of them equally and fighting with each other will not help any and will cause あなた not to want to be their friend but really it comes down to how much your friendship means to you. So forgive them but set limits to prevent yourself from the harm of the two of them fighting for あなた because it is not fair for them to make あなた chose between the two hope this helps and wish あなた the best of luck
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sounds good
jamtart01 posted １年以上前
joebro521 said:
Well, what i think あなた should do is make sure that they are フレンズ によって talking to them and making sure. So if they don't work it out then mabey あなた should just tell them that your not going to deal with it and just walk out and let them work it out before u get in the middle.
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babyjay said:
i think あなた should sit them down and tell them that if they where both true フレンズ that they would have never made あなた choose and that if it happens again it will hurt you. i dont think あなた should leave them because true フレンズ are really worth some thing special. hold on to them but explain how あなた feel to them. if あなた need もっと見る help let me know.
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