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Chibi-Baka3 said:
Yeah... Not too fun when someone migrates over to your フレンズ instead, eh?
I have that sort of problem, except this guy isn't annoying and he wasn't bothering me; it's my friend's ex, and he won't get away from her. Just being around him makes her feel bad, または maybe I should say "worse" since she has some depression.
All in all, I understand how you're feeling and I go through things like that too.
I can understand that あなた want him to leave your best フレンズ be, but I think that's もっと見る of their decision. I say that because of two things: first off, if they don't mind him being around them, then that's fine. Second, when あなた put down "making my フレンズ mad at me", it makes me think that they actually enjoy their company. If this is the case, then I don't believe あなた should interfere. If this isn't, I still think that あなた should talk to your フレンズ about this little "problem" and see what あなた come up with. This doesn't mean "devise some plan" to ruin his life, embarrass him, etc. I mean actually sit down and talk about it, and then communicate with him and tell him how あなた all feel.
Let's say that your フレンズ want to be around this guy. Seeing as あなた don't like him so much, I think that あなた should talk to your フレンズ and work something out. For an example, maybe they could hang out with him at a time where you're not around, so that あなた don't feel so annoyed. If this still doesn't work out for you, think to yourself that he's at least not bothering you. And that he's not doing anything mean to your friends.
We'll go for another scenario here for the heck of it: let's say that your フレンズ got together and talked about it. あなた all go and talk to this guy, but he still doesn't leave あなた alone. What do あなた do? I would suggest doing the same as あなた did: just ignoring him. I wouldn't suggest anything like "getting even" with him; no one needs to stoop down to any levels. Deal with situations maturely and calmly, and remember to be patient. Let not a single person yell, complain, whine, etc. It sounds like something a parent would say, but it really does make things worse if あなた do so.
Good luck to you, and feel free to ask any other 質問 that あなた may have.
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