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How Do I Make My Best Friend Understand That His Girlfriend Doesn't Care Much About Him?

My friend, Vincent, is going out with my other friend Samantha. In 6th grade she asked him out, but he 発言しました no because he was afriad when they broke up they wouldn't talk anymore. In 7th grade he regreted it, and now in 8th grade. I pushed Samantha into trying to like Vincent. I liked Vincent in 7th grade and still sort of do. But, I really care about him because now they are going out, and at first it was a very cute couple. But, Samantha has a record of being selfish, and stubborn. Even my other two フレンズ think so, Krysta and Devon. She is over dramatic too. We had a competition to run the whole track one, and she did but when she was done. She was breathing hard, and attacking like she was having a heartattack. I'm fatter then her, and I didn't breath as hard. But, Vincent and I have some what of romance. Everyday after school he gets a ride ホーム with me. We stay after school from 3:25 pm til 5:00 pm. And now he is getting a scheldue change to where me and him have もっと見る classes together. Its complicated, but I just feel like this isn't right. I don't wanna make it sound like I'm jealous. I just don't want my best friend to get hurt. But, I don't know what to do. Please help
 Kandy112349 posted 1年以上前
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Chibi-Baka3 said:
Aye caramba. Sounds difficult.

First off, あなた shouldn't push people to like another; they either like someone または they don't. Pushing someone into it will force their subconscious to think that they actually take interest in someone, when in reality they actually don't. It's nice to help フレンズ and all, but it's not good to play around with feelings/emotions.

The only way to get things through is to talk to your friend about it. It's the most effective way of getting things through. I think あなた should explain to your friend that he should be careful around her as well, even if he does like her; あなた 発言しました that あなた didn't want him to get hurt. Explain how あなた feel to him, and I'm sure that he'll understand you. Being as you're close friends, there shouldn't be any problems.

I suppose there's nothing あなた could do about that other girl, unless あなた think that あなた could try talking to her to control how she acts. People are stubborn -- and it's very common -- but being selfish isn't a good thing. If she truly only cares for herself and wants things for her own gain, then あなた should explain that to Vincent as well. But take this into account before あなた do anything: あなた need to have some proof. あなた can't just waltz around and deduce with no evidence that she's being selfish to him. It could lose trust.

If あなた have any もっと見る questions, feel free to ask.
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Ok thank あなた soooooo much
Kandy112349 posted 1年以上前
xgirl98 said:
look theres nothing u can do u cant change someones ハート, 心 just let him learn on his own and be there for him when he gets hurt
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