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This guy (we'll call him Alex) is 芝居 really weird around me. For all 3 years of middle school, I hated him and he hated me. または so I thought. He was always 芝居 really "smart". The kind of person that is really annoyingly smart. He could be nice at times, but I didn't really talk to him much. Once we reached 8th grade, he started being really nice to me, talking to me all the time, staring in my direction in classes. At the 8th grade dance, he asked one of my フレンズ (a guy, if that makes a difference) to find me...Thus, when I passed him, he tried to get me to request a song. Then I passed him again. He pulled me to the side and asked if I was having a good time.
Now, Alex is sort of....not very well liked. He doesn't really like girls, and when his friend was with a girl (in September), he wasn't too...yeah, あなた know. Happy.
Now, I'm not very comfortable around guys. I once did like someone, but I haven't in about 5 years. Yesterday was the last 日 of school, so I'll be going into 9th grade at the same high school as Alex. If this information helps at all....
Anyways, I'd like some アドバイス because this is....confusing. Is it possible to like someone after hating them for 3 years?
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によって the way, I hope you've realized that Alex is not his real name. I know あなた have :)
 PiperLunaPotter posted 1年以上前
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para-scence said:
Yeah, it's possible. Some guys just dont know how to get a girl to like them. He probably realized that 芝居 like he hates あなた didn't help at all. He was probably jealous of his friend too.
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posted 1年以上前 
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Thank あなた very much! I hadn't even thought of that attention-getting technique. It's just so different than how he's always been, so I wanted to get an unbiased opinion. :)
PiperLunaPotter posted 1年以上前
skytail127 said:
it is possible, his sudden change of attitude twards あなた does suggest hes taken a likeing to you.
how あなた feel about him is wats important here though. one thing to ask urself is why u hated him in the first place. it is possible to like someone あなた used to hate, and if u decide あなた do, id suggest going for it, what hav u realy got to lose?
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posted 1年以上前 
mudear said:
it is possible that people change their feelings about people in a small time. but あなた need to figure out if あなた still hate him and why あなた do. and if あなた dont hate him anymore i think あなた should give the guy a chance. He seems that he has changed so あなた might find that あなた really like him. good luck

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posted 1年以上前 
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