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Can あなた help me please? I'm having friendship troubles.

Well, here's the story.
I have a friend who I sit with at lunch every 日 (with my other friends), and my parents are good フレンズ with hers. But here's the thing: She's starting to annoy the living hell out of me. She doesn't have her own opinion, and agreed with everyone. She's really loud and a complete airhead. She NEVER shuts up! There are many other reasons, but I'd rather not tell あなた now. What should I do?
 xxXsk8trXxx posted 1年以上前
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123KittyCat said:
wow, wel my gess is that she just wants to fit in and be liked, 表示する her that ur her frend no matter wot.
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posted 1年以上前 
Ryoga_Rocks said:
I kind of have a problem like that too. =/ I just took a break from my friend for a 日 または two によって hanging out with someone else, but that obviously won't solve the problem. I think あなた should confront her about it.
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posted 1年以上前 
dreamfields said:
Well, I'm 52 years old, and あなた descibed a friend I've had since we were three. I agree that あなた need to take breaks from her. It's not being mean, it's just allowing yourself to relax so あなた don't blow up at her from frustration.
She might be insecure and feel that her opinions would not be valued.
One thing あなた might try in a nice way is mention to her that she is sometimes very loud. Beleive it または not, she may not realize how loud she is.
Ok, what should あなた do? First, try to be kind. That helps people to listen to your アドバイス if they know あなた are not trying to be mean. Second, set up boundaries on what あなた will accept and what あなた won't. As long as あなた have a good attitude, and are consistent, she should respect あなた for it. Thirdly, don't be afraid to take timeouts from her. I know this may be difficult if あなた eat together with her and your friends. I have to think that if she is getting on your nerves, there are probably other of your フレンズ feeling it and wondering what to do. Be yourself, and things may change for the better. (maybe not overnight) I hope this helps. Good Luck.
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posted 1年以上前 
spongebob-buddy said:
If She Is Not Your Best Friend
Then That's A Different Thing
あなた Could just Tell Your Friend That I Don't Think Our Friendship Will Work.
And If Your Other フレンズ Did Not Be フレンズ With あなた Anymore Then Find Other Ones!!!!
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posted 1年以上前 
TheFan10 said:
okay my dear xxXsk8trXxx i know a friend who i use to like we where besties along with another friend and she sounds like the one あなた are describing kinda annoying and agrees with whatever あなた say and if あなた change your opinion she will charge it aswell and maybe they can be too inocent to tell them anything well anyway..
me and my friend began separating away b cause i just didnt like her b cause of most of the things あなた just mentioned but as annoying as someone could be...
we have to face it friendship is MUCH もっと見る important than some loussy flaws that ppl may have we are not all perfect, maybe あなた can talk to her and have a bit of discusion on how she can express her own opinion and she could reduce her loudiness anyway DO NOT insult her i this conversation is just to talk not to break up so remember フレンズ are for life and if we cant stand flaws on them we might never have the perfact friend b cause we dont realize they are right there infront of us... <3
PS we are still フレンズ によって the way and it worked out hope あなた and ur bff work it out!!!
sorry is too long too :D
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posted 1年以上前 
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