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Am I weird?

Every time I hear または read bad words like (mother f***er, a-hole, f***, etc.)I feel sensitive. Well I say FEW bad words like "shit" 'cause I find it very common and I don't feel sensitive saying it. Also my classmate threw a notebook on my face then my tongue slipped, I 発言しました a curse. But he laughed 'cause we were all making fun/joke. And I 発言しました sorry to him 'cause I told the curse to him.
I went to my bestfriend and told what happened, she 発言しました "Saying bad words is part of growing up."

Yes, I agree. But, whenever I encounter words like those, I feel sensitive. Help?
 mitchie19 posted 1年以上前
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HAPPY-LIFE said:
I dont know if u are weird,cuz i sometimes have that feeling to.I meen every guy in my class says those bad words and i hate it!
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posted 1年以上前 
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i understand. :)
mitchie19 posted 1年以上前
dreamfields said:
あなた are not wierd. あなた have a sensitive ハート, 心 and that can be a good thing. Sometimes young and not so young people curse because it makes them feel tough または cool. It can be ofensive and rude. I try not to judge people who use really bad language, but how a person speaks, can influences how I feel about them. I know sometimes how a person grows up affects how they talk. I try to understand where they are coming from.
Not cursing can have benefits and make people be もっと見る likely to take あなた seriously. That will be important when your looking for good work または education. Cursing is not a sign of growing up または maturing. Did あなた know that the book of James, in the Bible, says that the hardest thing to tame is your tounge? So choosing your words is a matter of self control. Be true to your self, あなた are not wierd, あなた have a good heart.
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posted 1年以上前 
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Thank あなた very much!! It helped me, =)))
mitchie19 posted 1年以上前
Snerkie said:
It would have to do with what あなた grew up around as to how it makes あなた feel I guess. あなた may have only heard curse words when there was a serious situation, didn't hear them very often, etc. Not cursing is a lot better thing than people that curse a lot as it can be seen as very rude.
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oh. so do u agree that it's part of growing up?
mitchie19 posted 1年以上前
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I'd say how あなた feel towards it would be. It's not so much あなた SHOULD be cursing just because you're growing up though.
Snerkie posted 1年以上前
Sugar-N-Spice said:
There are many people who say that curse words are part of growing up, and then teenagers start to use them because it makes them feel grown up. Personally I think using curse words is immature. It's like spitting words out because one can't think of anything else to say または it gives them the feel of rebellion または being "grown-up". Now I know occasionally there are those moments where we are in such a state of shock または pain that those words slip out, but I think that these words should be controlled in normal circumstances.
I don't think that あなた are weird. In fact, I respect あなた for not being desensitized によって the world around you.
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posted 1年以上前 
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thanks.
mitchie19 posted 1年以上前
larouxbestfan said:
i think its funny when people swear it cracks me up so i guess that means no?
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lol
mitchie19 posted 1年以上前
miniabby33 said:
No hun! Not at all! I'm like that also. It makes me feel uncomfortable. And i just am now a 6th grader(chat me to find out why:P) and when あなた start middle school people think its okay to curse, its not! Remember, God made a place for あなた on earth so thank him によって not cursing. It is also not okay to say god's name in vain! (ex: GOD I broke a nail.) So 次 time あなた hear someone curse just politely say "can あなた not talk like that? I don't like it."
hope this helps!
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Wow, thanks!
mitchie19 posted 1年以上前
sapherequeen said:
Probably not. But if あなた were, what's the problem? xD
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Thanks!
mitchie19 posted 1年以上前
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