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I am 29 yr old working women- salary Rs.9800, living with my maternal grandparents in Mumbai,India. I and my younger sister have no one else rather than them. I am passionate about dance. Didn’t learnt dance because of the circumstances. Now I have

I am 29 yr old working women- salary Rs.9800, living with my maternal grandparents in Mumbai,India. I and my younger sister have no one else rather than them. I am passionate about dance. Didn’t learnt dance because of the circumstances. Now I have joined Kathak class worth Rs. 1500. My grandparents didn’t liked it. They 発言しました this money is for あなた but not for wasting like this. I don't feel it is for wasting. I don't think that によって this way the money is being wasted as dance is my passion and gives me satisfaction. They took our bank belongings and 発言しました that they will give not もっと見る than 500/month.They 発言しました that あなた are not allowed to do anything as far as あなた live in our home. I really don't feel to live with them. I am finding a hostel. One frnd of mine agreed to become my local guardian, but some hostel needs parent's no-objection letter. Those which don't require are a bit costly My mother was 失効しています and my father remarried and have no connection with us. I don't understand what to do. Please help me with your suggestion. What would あなた do and what should I do under this circumstances?
 Chani10 posted 1年以上前
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londonsrock said:
Wow. I didn't know that in India at 29 あなた needed a guardian. I am all for sticking with your traditions. Yet, I feel sometimes traditions are misogynist. It might be hard to find a middle ground. Maybe it would be best talking to ur grand parents first. Try to make them see that u need to do what fulfills u.
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dreamfields said:
I am all for あなた following your interest. Dance is fun, good exercise and makes あなた feel better about yourself. I would try to talk to your grand parents gently and respectfully about how あなた feel. They come from a differant generation and change is hard. It may take time for them to warm up to the idea. I am not really familiar with your culture, but obviously family is very important. Do your best to try to find a compramise. In the end あなた have to choose what is best for you. What ever あなた decide, make sure あなた are ready for the consequence of your choice and actions. I will pray for wisdom on your part and understanding on the part of your grandparents.
I wish あなた peace and happiness. God Bless.
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