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My 'friend' is making me feel bad for who I am

Firstly, I am VERY introverted. Like, people are hell introverted. But my friend is extremely extroverted.

We used to get on fine, but today we had a massive fight about the way we walk to school. Details aren't important, but basically she wanted to change and I didn't. It ended up with her telling me I was boring, and that everyone thought so. She 発言しました I needed to be もっと見る sociable, and learn to 'have a laugh' more.

The thing is, she knows that I am just not like that, yet she continues to make me feel bad about myself. She has also been spreading some nasty stuff about me since we fell out.

Should I even attempt to become フレンズ again, または are things over now?
 MissKnowItAll posted １年以上前
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chickencheese said:
If you've already tried to talk to her about how this is making あなた feel (if not, this is a good idea) and it hasn't worked, then I suggest making other フレンズ who are nicer people; however it's still a good idea to be フレンズ with her if あなた can- be nice to her and include her in things if she wants to be included, but make other フレンズ too. If she wants to be unkind then that's her problem- she's the one who will lose フレンズ because of it. Lastly, don't ever feel bad for who あなた are- remember that あなた are just like that and if あなた are happy that way then don't change.
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posted １年以上前 
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Thank you. :)
MissKnowItAll posted １年以上前
jeftelover said:
if she talks crap about あなた then talk
crap about her!if a friend ever does that to
あなた then she dosent desurve you!
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Thanks for the answer. :)
MissKnowItAll posted １年以上前
larouxbestfan said:
if your friend is going to be a total jerk to あなた just because of who u r dont even try to even become remote フレンズ because a friend accepts u for who u r no matter what
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:) Thanks.
MissKnowItAll posted １年以上前
Kassaremidylynn said:
Dump her.
I know that sounds harsh, but I was in a situation exactly like yours.
I am EXTREMELY introverted and my best friend was EXTREMELY extroverted. She was always telling me to get out もっと見る and that I was boring and I had no フレンズ and it was a wonder I knew anything about the real world.

I tried to explain to her - for what seemed to be the hundredth time - that I just don't do stuff like that and I realized I didn't need that. I don't need to justify my very being to another person except myself.

It seemes あなた are okay with being introverted, so don't let her make あなた feel inferior just because あなた would rather curl up at ホーム than go partying.
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I appreciate the advice. :D
MissKnowItAll posted １年以上前
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