i need help like now

The is nothing i can say to make the process painless for you. it will be hard. all i can say is have faith あなた don't have to be religious just make sure あなた never fall into a pessimistic attitude. see if あなた can dig up もっと見る information on the surgery, on the internet from the doctor または if she's willing from your mum. it make make it easier for both of you. lastly during the surgery make sure you're with someone who cares about あなた and will listen devoutly and even hug.

hon calm down.its ok.your mother needs your support.k?

my mom was on sergery before.dont be scared.
she will be alright.thats why we have docters for.
;)