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I don't fit with the crowd.

I hate the color pink.Punk 音楽 rocks no offense to pop lovers. I am tall and skinny. I don't find a pleasure in eating ジャンク food. 愛 dark colors. Ride horses. I am the exact opposite of everybody at my school. Because of this no one likes to talk to me. Does anybody else think that is wrong?
 horsegirl213 posted 1年以上前
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londonsrock said:
It is ok to be different but sometimes if あなた have nothing in common あなた should make an effort to find something あなた can talk about with your classmates like a tv 表示する または movie あなた both like
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posted 1年以上前 
juniper427 said:
It's easier than あなた would think to find similar interests with other people. For me it is usually though TV shows, music, and movies. For others it might be a mutual 愛 of cooking または art. be observant there are probably other kids in your school who feel like they don't fit in. try starting a conversation with them. あなた might be surprised.

あなた don't have to fit in with The Crowd, make your own. 登録する a club that interests あなた (maybe a horse club?). あなた may meet people there that あなた didn't know shared your interest.
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posted 1年以上前 
XDRoseLuvsHP said:
Yes, I do think that is wrong.
I can totally relate, though for me it's slightly different. (I'm もっと見る into 虹 colours and unique style that other people see as "freakish", for example wearing two differently coloured shoes. I listen to super-happy Japanese music, not pop. I have a pixie cut, so people think that must obviously mean I'm a lesbian, which is the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard. I'm also socially awkward... so I totally get it.) I think あなた should be able to listen to what あなた please, wear what あなた please, and not be judged automatically for it. People seem to be convinced that あなた can know a person perfectly simply によって observing what they wear, but it is not that simple. I think that, によって the sounds of it, you'd fit in well in an urban area, because in urban places, people of all different styles and fashions can be フレンズ and are generally もっと見る accepting of one another. I wish あなた luck with all this!
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posted 1年以上前 
sehdt said:
Its not right but sadly being different can have that effect. But as a 35 年 old woman without a man in her life and not bothered, who has an interest in steam engines which I never told school フレンズ about because I knew I would get teased. I also am knock kneed so doing childhood things like skipping and jumping I found difficult または impossible. I totally understand your problem. I have turned into a bit of a loaner but I was always told to be myself so I am.
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posted 1年以上前 
ilovemusic29 said:
GO UP 2 some one and b like heyyyy im insert name here im really lonley wanna hang out

trust me thats how i made my fisrt friend

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posted 1年以上前 
clevercaoimhe said:
あなた are diffrent that is great ur not afraid to stand out and people are afraid of that, why would anyone think that is wrong?you are not brainwashed によって this generation and u are better 4 that, do not let your self think its wrong! :) stay strong!
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posted 1年以上前 
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i forgot to stay i no how u feel :P
clevercaoimhe posted 1年以上前
MizzMakayla said:
Yea.. that is wrong. :\ I'm フレンズ with people who are way diffrent from me. Some of us don't like the same things at all, but we're still フレンズ :) And when you're フレンズ with people who like different things, あなた might start liking those things too
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posted 1年以上前 
zomeister said:
Hey, I'm also the exact opposite of everybody at my school. I listen to grunge music, if something goes wrong, I say it, and I'm not afraid of staying alone, when every one else is stressed out of eating all によって them selves. But, I have some friends. Try to 表示する people what a great person あなた are, and, aside from that, I'm sorry, I don't know what to say.
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posted 1年以上前 
samoangirl96 said:
hun, if あなた don't fit in with the crowd then make your own crowd!!! who cares if others won't talk to you, just be yourself, surly someone will come around
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posted 1年以上前 
xxXsk8trXxx said:
To me, あなた sound just like most people who think that they don't fit in. But あなた do.
あなた fit in with the billions of other people like あなた who claim to not fit in. If some people claim not to "fit in" because they don't like dark colors, like punk, and hate ジャンク food, then it becomes a trend. Which it is.
So あなた don't not fit in. あなた do fit in.
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posted 1年以上前 
doggee said:
I'd be bit frank. plz don't mind. don't change yourself if u r not doing anything that harms others.the concepts that girl must be COMPLETELY DELICATE,SHY and all that and also misconceptions abt boys is called gender stereotypes. and most imp. if u r feeling that u r in wrong gender body ,then consult a psychiatrist. don' worry.that are some characteristics of transsexualism.
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posted 1年以上前 
jeftelover said:
everyone is very special in there own ways.
dont let anyone let あなた down girl!
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 everyone is very special in there own ways. dont let anyone let あなた down girl!
posted 1年以上前 
katana64 said:
i dont fit in much ether, i just say im a weirdo and if they want to be judgmental they can take it to hell with them later on
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posted 1年以上前 
larouxbestfan said:
ummm...NO be yourself is the number one rule...dont CHANGE FOR ANYONE ELSE JUST TO FIT IN!!!
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posted 1年以上前 
lydianm said:
I can't give あなた much アドバイス on how to make フレンズ because I haven't figured that out myself. But I know how あなた feel.

I'm the complete opposite of people in my part of the world. I always wear skirts. I go to church almost every service. I 愛 riding horses. (Yay horse lovers!!!) I'm shy. I'm a girl, but I feel もっと見る comfortable hanging around boys. I wear what I want; I don't care if it went out of style 20 years ago. Yeah. I know exactly where you're coming from.

Thankfully, I've found a couple of people I have a few things in common with at my church.

The only アドバイス I have for あなた is to try to find some group, a club または something that you're intrested in, and 登録する it. Maybe あなた can find someone there that あなた have at least a couple of things in common with. I hope I helped. Good luck.
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posted 1年以上前 
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