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wat do i do if my best friend is going out with my ex, it upsets me.

The thing is she asked me first and i 発言しました she could but its killing me inside. And i'm going to have to see them together alot because he lives in their neigbhorhood. And its hurting me just her telling me about how he asked her out.
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she's my best friend, we're literally sisters. She asked me if i wanted her to break his heart. i 発言しました no of cousre because shes liked him for awhile. but i'm regretting that decision and i don't want to hurt either of them.but he only broke up with me a couple of days ago, so i can't talk to him about it. and i'm afraid he's gonna hurt him.
amcas97 posted １年以上前
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i mean her sorry
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louvreangel said:
I can only advise あなた that あなた should: Ignore both of them. I know, this is hard to do, but what else can あなた do? I mean, your ex (who seems to forget あなた already!) asked your "best friend" to go on a date. Your ex asked your "best friend" even though he knew she was your best friend. And, I'm sure she knows that あなた couldnt get over him, so technically she shouldnt have accepted to go out with him. Well, Okay, I can understand how stupid men are, and I can understand him asking your bestfriend out cuz they dont give a shit what their exgirlfriends think または feel; but I cant understand your bestfriend, cuz she kinda betrayed you. Didnt she?
If we look from the angle I look, its all a betrayal. または we can put it into words like this: They didnt give a damn about how あなた feel.
So, my point is: They ignored あなた and your feelings, so あなた IGNORE them too. Its the best あなた can do in this situation. Dont be upset for people who doesnt care about you. Be tough.
And smile always (:
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posted １年以上前 
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the thing is she asked me first.and i 発言しました she could say yes cuz i knew she liked him too.
amcas97 posted １年以上前
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For God's sake, screw it! She shouldnt even have asked you! Of course your answer was fake and im sure she could understand it from the mimics on your face. あなた say "best friend". Best フレンズ know everything. あなた tell her everything about yourself, right? So she absolutely know that あなた were not through him yet. Just because あなた 発言しました "yes", she didnt have to go out with him. She could have considered it and think about your feelings. Best フレンズ gotta be thoughtful.
louvreangel posted １年以上前
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riend, the only person who's only understood how i felt.the 質問 she asked was if i wanted her to break his heart, so of course i 発言しました no.i knew she'd always liked him so i told her j ust to say yes and make the best of it. i know im the one asking for アドバイス and all but i just can't stand the thought of losing my sister.
amcas97 posted １年以上前
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well, then i have nothing to say. ignore my answer, または if あなた like i can 削除 it. but if u want people to answer, then u should give these details on your question's message too (; cuz your summerize, without these details, will make people think the way i think. and, in fact, i still tell あなた to : ignore them. it upsets you, seeing them together, right? so just pretent あなた dont see them. または act normal and try to get used to it. (:
louvreangel posted １年以上前
djsheshe said:
your friend shldnt hve asked u to go out with him to begin with in ym opinion, and if its killing u, try keep your distance, but if it still hurts, then tell her. dont yell または start rambling so the two of u get mad at each other, just tell her straight up, and tell her u cld use her help.

remember, u did say she cld go out with him, and y is it killing u if he's your ex? do u still like him??? cuz if u do, even if u r hiding it, it will cause problems. and if thats the case, then eventually, after u have thought it thru A LOT, u need to tell u're friend. dnt discuss any of this with the guy, ok?i feel it cld cause problems.
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posted １年以上前 
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he only broke up with u a few days ago!!!!!????? wow. but i thnk dnt keep how u feel to yourself cuz eventually u cld blow up and make things go sour. :/
djsheshe posted １年以上前
zomeister said:
あなた should tell her. Maybe she isn't the best friend in the world...
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posted １年以上前 
TheFan10 said:
well あなた should think how she feels first is she happy ? does he make her happy? is she having a hard time ? または how are they getting on? now if those 質問 have been answered in this order YES YES NO YES あなた should let her after all she is your best フレンズ and there is noting better than friendship
now if it botthers あなた SOOOO much that あなた cant handdle it then あなた should have a little chat with her あなた cant force her to break up with him and if あなた trie she might stop been your friend she needs your support and she thinks あなた are happy for her thats why あなた let her...so be happy for her..if he was a jerk to あなた while あなた where going out then i believe あなた need to warn her of those posibilities but do not makeanything up it is probably likely thsat she might talk to him about that unless あなた tell her not to.
now あなた should talk to him about your feelings but do not do it in a way that may suggest that u want to cheat on your friend または something like that and also ask him to mind her, if your worried he might hurt her...
good luck <3 remember boyfriends and girlfriends come and go but friendship is for life so dont spoil it because of a guy!!
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posted １年以上前 
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ad remember she asked あなた first so she cares about what あなた might feel so aproach her gently if あなた are gonna talk to her!
TheFan10 posted １年以上前
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