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plz open this. i need your help.

i hve this friend who is seriously starting to get on my nerves. i am a tolerating person, but ive just realised i get all depressed around her and shes always saying negative things about life and she's never happy for me and its just frustrating. like i'll say (im only 15) i wanna go to this university. and she'll say, "well thats impossible cuz u hve to be really smart または really rich"

or, i'll be really sad about something and she twists it so well that i feel like im being selfish for being sad around her.

and when i say something like, my dog died she'll say, "yes, well that's very sad. I saw this dog today and it had half a tail..." get the picture. pple say we need to leave her so she can have a reality check cuz we've told her what she does, but i dnt know if i want to cuz she doesnt have that many フレンズ anymore. she'll be all alone. But should i sacrifice my emotional health for her all the time?
 djsheshe posted 1年以上前
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xgirl101 said:
Tell her life is too short to be depressed and negative, people dying in cancer wars are もっと見る positive than her. Let her know she'll be all alone in her little world where everything is sad
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posted 1年以上前 
edaa said:
that sucks.. i thnik あなた should talk to her about that... if she tries to be happier, then あなた can keep being her friend. but if she cant... then あなた shouldnt let her make あなた sad all the time!
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posted 1年以上前 
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thnks :D
djsheshe posted 1年以上前
sasuhia4ever said:
mabey put a little distance between あなた two, あなた can tell her あなた want to be フレンズ still but あなた need some 宇宙 または あなた need to sit down and tell her strait up what she is doing and tell her that she NEEDS to do something about it. hope it helps
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posted 1年以上前 
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thnks. but the thing is we've told her 3 times already. and in nice friend way too.
djsheshe posted 1年以上前
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Don't tell her in a nice friend way
xgirl101 posted 1年以上前
sjod said:
No sacrifices should be made...tell her to get over it
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posted 1年以上前 
prissylovesjb said:
i think u should talk to her about what she does to u. u shudnt say it in a nice friendly way if not shell think ur joking, but if u say it in a serious and kinda angry face she might take it seriously. if she listens to u and stops her whatever, the u can still hang out with her but if she doesnt then fine, the friendships over.
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posted 1年以上前 
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