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how do i get him to lay off?

when my dad died my older afult brother jeff took over and now is the legal guardian of me and my other older brother and sister. hes always yelling at me and i dont really ahve a social life any もっと見る except teh guys that come to the house to see jeff または kevin. i am just finishing off a 2 月 grounding for being there when my friend ストール, 盗んだ a magizine from the store. hes always yelling at em for whatever i do. it seems. i miss my happy go lucky brother. but i know he ha s alot on his mind with dad dieing , taking on this responsibility so we dont have to 移動する with my evil aunt( lol) and em and my borther are always trouble. but how do i tell him all this without him yelling at me? help would be nice:)i might even give u a リスペクト and ファン you!( im new here)
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*me. sorry about the typos:)
outsidersfan_14 posted １年以上前
 outsidersfan_14 posted １年以上前
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katana64 said:
あなた should get out of the house もっと見る often and maybe learn a martial art and あなた dont have to worry about the yelling, maybe あなた can try going to a kendo dojo または something like that
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posted １年以上前 
londonsrock said:
i am sorry about your dad. it must be really difficult for あなた and your siblings and maybe あなた should try to 書く them a letter telling them how あなた feel. there are also ppl that あなた can't get through so あなた might want to just do what your brother wants for a while until he sees that あなた are trying to help him and he might come around. good luck
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posted １年以上前 
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a letter? but we live in the same house. and thanks
outsidersfan_14 posted １年以上前
isabella1345234 said:
i have the same problem just opisite my dad left me and my mom when i was born and my moms never ホーム and im all alone all the time but i learn how to deal with the pain anyway あなた shouldnt be afaird to stand up to ur brother ur his sis not his daughter and he should listen to you.or maybe just give him a break and let him no that he doesnt have to look after あなた and あなた could haddle this situation of ur father dieing believe me i understand the pain u and ur family is going though.
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posted １年以上前 
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thanks:)
outsidersfan_14 posted １年以上前
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no problem
isabella1345234 posted １年以上前
mflorida said:
im so sorry to hear about your father.and as あなた 発言しました your bro is probably stressed about having to take responsibility and this happening so fast. he probably yells to think he can steer あなた in the right directions.

your brother has good intentions and just wants あなた to be 安全, 安全です and healthy.i would find something to take his mind off stress.but if あなた really feel that bad ,i would talk to a friend または counsler.sometimes it helps to pray whether your catholic または not. keep a journal about your feelings または just talk to him about things または think about life from his point of view

hope everything works out

- mflorida:)
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