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I'm not sure if I'm bisexual または bi-curious and I can't ask anyone yet...help?

I'm 16 and I've had relationships with boys and all but when I masturbate I get turned on my girls. Does that mean im bisexual または bi-curious?
And my friend turned bi and my other フレンズ in our サークル, 円 treat her differently. My family jokes about one of me または my siblings being gay and how thats wrong, so I have to act straight. I don't know when I should tell または if it's worth telling because it could just be a phase. I'm scared and I don't know what to do. 回答 または アドバイス anyone?
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neonwalflower posted 1年以上前
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probaly bi
j-blover1992 posted 1年以上前
 neonwalflower posted 1年以上前
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Cinders said:
First of all, I just want to get the language right. Your friend didn't turn bisexual, she came out bisexual. Sexuality isn't something that あなた turn into, または choose, it's something that's always existed in あなた that あなた might discover または explore, but it's not a sudden change または a choice.

Next, nobody, least of all people on the internet who don't know you, can tell あなた what your sexual orientation is. I know that might be frustrating for you, but keep in mind that we aren't you, we aren't inside your head, and we don't know how あなた are feeling または what you're thinking.

I do want to reassure あなた that it's OK to be bisexual, normal even. Sexual diversity is a natural thing, despite what some people say. It exists in 動物 and humans, and has for millions of years. あなた aren't the first person to be confused によって this either. I would suggest going to speak to your school counselor, who is bound によって confidentiality laws to keep your trust if you're concerned about judgment from other people.

If you're not ready to come out bisexual either because you're not sure if あなた are, または you're not sure how people will react, then the short answer is don't. Wait until あなた know yourself better and it feels right to tell others. Focus on your interests in boys if that helps あなた feel better. If あなた meet a girl that あなた find attractive, and if she reciprocates, go for it, see how it feels. Don't hide from your feelings. But it's no one else's business either, if あなた don't want it to be. Heterosexuals never have to "come out" straight. They don't carry a sign with them everywhere that says that they're straight. Coming out is supposed to empower you, help あなた define an identity. If it doesn't, then あなた don't have to do it until it does.

This probably isn't much help. I still urge あなた to discuss with your school counselor, who is trained in these matters.
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wow this actually makes alot of sense. thanks. alot i mean it is my decision and im glad u were here 2help clear it up for me. :) thanks
neonwalflower posted 1年以上前
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if u r on send me a messsage on my ウォール ok bye
demigod258 posted 1年以上前
deathxnote said:
Dont worry! Im 13 an i have a boyfriend but when i masterbate, i get really turned on によって lesbian porn. i didnt know if i was bi, but i learned that its normal in teen years. evenyually youll know what あなた are but just relax an wait to find out what あなた really are. :D
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