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ShadowFan100 said:
1: Physical contact. I’m naturally not a very physical, intimate person. I don’t like being expected to just give out physical contact when meeting new people. For example: handshakes. OK, I get that’s a common thing here in America, but not everyone wants to shake the hand of a stranger they literally just fucking met. For me, it’s rude AF for strangers to want physical contact from me. Especially when I don’t even know them. I don’t know where their hands have been, and I don’t want them touching mine. And that’s why I’m making it a habit to wear gloves when my job coach introduces me to people, and pressures me to give them physical contact. For hugs, I almost never do this. Even with people I’m closest to. However, I do give out hugs once I feel comfortable around them. But not until then. The thing with me is: Physical contact from me is something people must earn, I’m not just going let あなた touch me. But in most cases, tho, physical contact just makes me cringe almost 24/7. And I make sure they understand where I draw the line. 2: Sexual remarks are a “no” from me. I don’t see them as a compliment, rather an insult. I don’t like being seen as just an attractive thing that someone wants to bang. If あなた want to compliment on how I look, that’s absolutely fine. But DO NOT クロス into sexual remarks または compliments on specific areas on my body. Doing so will get あなた smacked. This is all I could think of at the moment, I’ll add more.
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