I'd say most everyone does. Everyone is both helpful and harmful in their own ways, I think.
I'm 全体, 全体的です a pretty critical person and I think that's somehow both my most useful and harmful trait. 'Cause on one hand I take a lot of care in doing the things the right way (or, at least, the best that I possibly can) and take everything in life as a possible learning experience so I can do even better. I'm also pretty adept at seeing flaws in other people's stuff when it comes to things I'm somewhat knowledgeable and could probably help someone with those things if they needed it.
Consequently, I'm also very hard on myself when I don't do things properly which can hold me back in a lot of ways. I can get depressed または frustrated very easily when something doesn't go right, and sometimes I procrastinate on doing things because I'm either not prepared または I don't want to mess up. And although I've gotten a lot better at that specifically I'm also rather critical of others. Not too harshly, I hope, but I do have a bad habit of correcting others when they're wrong about things that ultimately don't matter and upsetting them. I also am kind of judgemental about, like, the fashion sense of ランダム strangers. I'm not mean to anyone I think is dressed poorly so it's pretty benign but I'll still think to myself "guuuuurrrrl those shoes do not go with that purse".
So being critical is a bit of a double edged sword, really.
Everyone has a harmful and useful side to them most of the time. Some people are so scummy they probably never was human in the first place. But then there are some people who really strive to be the best they can be period and go above and beyond in doing that. But generally speaking everyone has that duality to their personality.
I am extremely detached. I don't always see a reason to put forth alot of effort in something if I don't see a reason and I am sometimes find it's hard for me to feel how someone might be experiencing an emotion. If I find it stupid または nonsensical. I'll be like it doesn't make sense. I can understand clinically why it's happening but I don't always understand why is it necessary. My extreme indifference has been both a double edge sword and a gift. So ya.
I guess. One side usually shows through もっと見る depending on the day. Creativity and open-mindedness are useful but then there are some days where I think that they're both pretty useless and I'd be better off having math skill over creativity. But I guess あなた have to work with what you've got.
posted １年以上前
^ Quite relatable, dudette. Have been wondering about the same thing over time. In the end, it is what it is !!!!
Well, as those before me have already established, it is a 与えられた for everyone. I'm not an exception. Various traits of mine could work as double-edged swords. There are certain aspects of me that I happen to be proud of but could prove useless または damaging either for myself または others on certain occassions.
I put thought into things but I tend to overdo it a lot of the time bringing no result in the end because of that.
I am a Caring Person in overall. Sometimes, to the point that my affection might come as a bit forceful, pretty awkward または annoying though. Unneeded in overall.
I am a daydreamer. To the point it can consume most of my time in a 日 and keeping me distracted from certain responsibilities.
I consider myself to be pretty open-minded and creative as well as having a variety of knowledge for many different Subjects but sometimes, that is simply not enough to pass through certain doors in Life. In the end, あなた work with what あなた are 与えられた just as Zanny said.
I could go on about each Trait of mine but あなた get the idea lol. Doubt there is a person who is any different. Human Beings have their pros and cons. That's they way we work !!!!
I would say there aren't "sides." It's all just one collective personality that can be useful in some situations and harmful in others. No aspect of a personality is useful in every circumstance. So I guess no, I don't believe that.
