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TheLefteris24 said:
These are my Scores: 9 for Words of Affirmation Actions don’t always speak louder than words. If this is your 愛 language, unsolicited compliments mean the world to you. Hearing the words, “I 愛 you,” are important— hearing the reasons behind that 愛 sends your spirits skyward. Insults can leave あなた shattered and are not easily forgotten. あなた thrive on hearing kind and encouraging words that build あなた up. 6 both for Quality Time and Receiving Gifts a) In Quality Time, nothing says “I 愛 you” like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is critical, but really being there—with the TV off, fork and ナイフ down, and all chores and tasks on standby—makes あなた feel truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed activities, または the failure to listen can be especially hurtful. Whether itʼs spending uninterrupted time talking with someone else または doing activities together, あなた deepen your connection with others through sharing time. b) Don’t mistake this 愛 language for materialism; the receiver of gifts thrives on the love, thoughtfulness, and effort behind the gift. If あなた speak this language, the perfect gift または gesture shows that あなた are known, あなた are cared for, and あなた are prized above whatever was sacrificed to bring the gift to you. A missed birthday または a hasty, thoughtless gift would be disastrous—so would the absence of everyday gestures. Gifts are heartfelt symbols to あなた of someone else's 愛 and affection for you. 5 for Acts of Service / Kindness Can helping with homework really be an expression of love? Absolutely! Anything あなた do to ease the burden of responsibilities weighing on an “Acts of Service” person will speak volumes. The words he または she most wants to hear: “Let me do that for you.” Laziness, broken commitments, and making もっと見る work for them tell speakers of this language their feelings don’t matter. When others serve あなた out of 愛 (and not obligation), あなた feel truly valued and loved. 4 for Physical Touch A person whose primary language is Physical Touch is, not surprisingly, very touchy. Hugs, pats on the back, and thoughtful touches on the arm—they can all be ways to 表示する excitement, concern, care, and love. Physical presence and accessibility are crucial, while neglect または abuse can be unforgivable and destructive. Appropriate and timely touches communicate warmth, safety, and 愛 to you. That's it, pretty much. What I want to say is that it was an expected result but at the same time, I got myself surprised concerning the order of some since there are those that I personally feel myself placing on a higher value than the way these Scores indicate...
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