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Okay, so I've been フレンズ with this guy for four years. He's been bullied pretty much all of his life, and I've always stuck によって his side. Even when people made fun of me for hanging out with him, I didn't care. We've always had this deep connection, and we loved each other like brother and sister.

Recently, these girls have been harassing him. Telling him to kill himself and saying he did things in which he didn't. I helped him through this rough patch, and it was emotional for both of us.

About two days after this happened, he slowly stopped responding to my texts. And then, he stopped responding overall. I thought he was just busy, but it turned out he was texting everyone but me. My フレンズ would ask him about me, and when they did he just would ignore the 質問 and/or not respond.

A 日 または two later, I was on the bus, and he sat with another kid. The kid asked him about me, and the guy looked straight at me and 発言しました "we've never talked before." It honestly crushed me, and now I can't stand to hear his voice または see him around.

Why do あなた think he did this? We haven't talked ever since, and I don't feel like he wants to make it up at all I (niether do I, really). Any アドバイス from the ファンポップ community?
 rapunzelsgold_ posted １年以上前
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Riku114 said:
あなた should probably confront him yourself about it and make sure he is okay with his problems first. This might be a branch off from it, so dont throw him away and hate him so quickly. People who have problems, may it be genetic, psychological, または scars from trauma, tend to do things that might not be the wisest.

Though some reasons I could come up with is.....

1) Someone made あなた seem worthless than the damage あなた would cause for him
a: This may be because あなた gained a bad reputation and people hated him because of あなた and thats what they said
b: It was a bargain of sort
c: Someone 発言しました a lie to him about あなた that made あなた seem less than what あなた should be
d: A threat was placed
e: あなた became 'bad for his reputation'

2) Its the drag on from something psychological/traumatizing
a: Maybe あなた remind him of something bad
b: Maybe あなた bring back bad memories of the past despite being the 情報源 of the good

3) Something あなた did bothered him または vice versa
a: Something uncomfortable. Maybe he ended up liking you, maybe he thought あなた ended up liking him.
b: Maybe あなた became too close
c: Maybe trust issues

4) He is trying to start anew
a: あなた are part of his past that must be dropped.
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posted １年以上前 
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Wish あなた the best of luck though
Riku114 posted １年以上前
Haonako said:
あなた need to pull through and if neither of あなた wants to make up then leave him like あなた dont need him tf
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posted １年以上前 
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Thats kind of harsh. Especially for a friend of 4 years that powered through so much
Riku114 posted １年以上前
pablopj said:
あなた say there people who been mean to him, there's a chance they lied to him about あなた so he would stay away from you, the best thing to do in a case like this is to talk with him, find a way to get to him and ask, if they lied something like あなた hate him, then he can be feeling bad, maybe even close to ending his life, if あなた want to know, あなた have to be the one to talk
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posted １年以上前 
Dreamtime said:
damn
probably someone 発言しました bad things about あなた to him to make him avoid you
face him just tell him hear him out there must be a mistake here
hope things goes well for you
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