What are the qualities u hate about guys?

Blind, あなた know I 愛 あなた and respect あなた as a user, but some of your コメント on this post are making me sad. Your defensiveness in this post is unsettling and reminds me a lot of when recently that "yesallwomen" hashtag trended on twitter following the UCSB shooting and men felt it was a perfect time to trend the hashtag "notallmen". Generalizations are not cool, I agree with that. I've met plenty of fuckwads in both genders. However, that doesn't make it okay to take it out on women who distrust men. I admit that I personally distrust men. That doesn't mean I hate men in the slightest, it means I'm wary of them. Why? Because it's men, not women, who will be the ones to rape me または murder me. That's off-topic a bit, but it relates to the fact that misogyny is deep-seated in our society and it's unavoidable. For you, a (probably) white male, あなた are privileged. あなた don't have to worry about walking down the 通り, ストリート and getting raped. あなた don't have to worry about being paid less just because あなた have a vagina. あなた don't have to deal with what women deal with on a DAILY BASIS. Like I said, I do 愛 you. I'm not trying to start an argument, just a friendly debate. But when あなた are in a position of privilege and have never experienced being oppressed, it's really shit to get offended at the oppressed who have a problem with their oppressors. Instead of getting offended, maybe あなた could have some empathy and recognize where the women are coming from? And have enough faith in yourself to admit that a majority of men are misogynistic and it's not okay? But that あなた personally are not misogynistic and once a woman gets to know あなた she'll see this is the case. i'm white and I can fully admit that white people are racist shitheads and don't blame minorities for not trusting white people, even though I'm white myself. It's about being able to step back and not be selfish and not make OTHER PEOPLE'S struggles about YOURSELF.

(Please not that the バッジ are not meant to be me yelling lol. I couldn't do italics so I had to do バッジ instead. It makes me sound angry when i'm really not)

I don't get why the UCSB shooting brought up all this gender related nonsense. It's not how the crazed maniac was misogynistic または some shit, he hated everyone from both genders and obviously was sick in the head. The news should bring about discussions of mental illness and stricter gun controls, and also on the condolences of the victims of the murder.

I hate that, too. Guys should be strong and not 表示する feelings, right? I call BS on that one. So, yeah, I definitely agree with あなた :)

lol xD

i'm completely with u!

i'm completely with u in that opinion!

あなた are a very respecting guy :)

Omg all men are bad because ex didn't comfort me when I needed him. You're kidding right?

jeez no need to be a jerk about it

and besides I didn't say all men. jeez fuck off

Why not ask?

u mean ask him if he's cheating on me?

Thank you! I agree with あなた 100%. I don't like when people generalize like that. Not ALL men are like that, and some women can be that way.

^

yea some men are very kind

lol

xD also something not that attractive lol xD

So if were to make the same generalization about women あなた wouldn't be offended?

it's just hard to distrust only some men, または just distrust everyone in general (which, actually, I do a little), when you've been exposed to the disgusting ways of some men, and have had little exposure to the good. Also, having had mostly good experiences with women and people of every other gender besides male.

^Well in the case of distrusting people generally that's something あなた and I have in common. But I guess I go about it somewhat different then.