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Need Relationship アドバイス stat! >.<

so here's the story. I just started dating my bf he's cool and a real sweetheart...but i feel he's a bit clingy または needy. i mean we were on the phone and he was like 'What are あなた doing?' 'chatting' 'with other guys?!?!?' 'no' 'dont lie' 'im not' then like a few 分 前 i was like 'hey babe im tired night' and i went to bed. Then he skypes me so i answer. 'hi baby what's up?' 'i thought あなた were sleeping...and whats with half the ハート, 心 note?' (i had this note i put up a few months 前 that read without あなた im half a heart...forgot to update it) 'i was...' 'dont lie to me babe.' 'im not and the note was up months ago' so i go to change it...but for some reason skype put the old one back. 'Why'd あなた put half a ハート, 心 up again?! are u unhappy with me?' 'no. i 愛 you' then he went to bed...but would あなた say hes needy? and what should i do to stop him from 芝居 this way?
 liakarad1 posted １年以上前
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Zeppie said:
あなた say あなた guys just started dating...so in my opinion, if he's 芝居 like that in the very beginning...then it does come across as odd.

It depends really how he says it. He could be just teasing and playing with you, but if あなた feel like it's going beyond teasing, then definitely just tell him straight up that you're not comfortable with all the questions.
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posted １年以上前 
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thanks ^_^ and i also think he's not joking about it
liakarad1 posted １年以上前
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Then definitely tell him you're not comfortable with it. If he doesn't change his attitude then he's selfish and doesn't respect your wishes. Good luck with it all ^^
Zeppie posted １年以上前
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Well maybe ha has had stuff happen to him in the past and is afraid....Did あなた ask him about his past relationships... Make sure あなた are being fair also, he could have had something happen in the past and he is just really emotional. That might be why he does the things he does :)
LovableXNerd posted １年以上前
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Hmmm...he did say his ex cheated O.o
liakarad1 posted １年以上前
EgoMouse said:
What I would do: Dump him, he reminds me too much of my psycho ex-girlfriend that was too clingy. Couldn't stand her. Would not 日付 him even if he was good at sex または something. Though, he's kinda cute in a annoying, weird 尻, お尻 way.
My advice: I would find out if he had past relationships. He could of had a girlfriend(s) that cheated on him.
He's likely not ready for a relationship either way. Relationships without trust is a waste of time.
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posted １年以上前 
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thanks ^_^ and yes his ex (of 2 yrs) cheated
liakarad1 posted １年以上前
Book-Freak said:
I would call that controlling, not clingy! あなた need to be straight with him about the boundaries of your relationship - not only is he calling あなた a liar, but implying that he doesn't want あなた talking to other boys, which he has no right to do. He needs to know that he does not need to know who あなた talk to and cannot control who あなた hang out with. If he can't respect this, あなた should consider ending things with him.
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