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Cutting?

i'm a cutter. it's almost an addiction. what do i do?
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It IS a form of addiction. I suggest あなた ask someone あなた really trust for help. It's not a sign of weakness, it's a sign of strength to realize something has escalated into a big problem that あなた can't solve on your own.
april333 posted 1年以上前
 Castalinia posted 1年以上前
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RobinFan360 said:
Depends on the reason.
I don't know how it feels since I don't cut, but maybe あなた can try and handle it like sucking your thumb? Put something over your wrists(or wherever あなた cut) that あなた can't open. Maybe like a bunch of duct tape? または something that needs a code to unlock which only a family member would know?

And then maybe あなた could try cutting something else if the reason あなた cut is to vent your frustration.

Again I don't really know much :/
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posted 1年以上前 
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Why would she lock something around her wrist?
Mecksey posted 1年以上前
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^ so she can't cut it
XxKeithHarkinxX posted 1年以上前
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What does she means によって locking something around her wrist?
Mecksey posted 1年以上前
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I don't know. Something like a big bracelet that can have a little lock
RobinFan360 posted 1年以上前
seeuvocaloid3 said:
message me so we can talk about it because this type of stuff is serious
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posted 1年以上前 
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okay
Castalinia posted 1年以上前
XxKeithHarkinxX said:
STOP!
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posted 1年以上前 
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......it's hard
Castalinia posted 1年以上前
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I know, i know noting about this, but it does あなた no good it just hurts あなた more, wear rubber wrist bands so あなた can't.
XxKeithHarkinxX posted 1年以上前
loYol said:
Well for one, try stopping. If あなた can't stop, remove all sharp objects away from yourself. When あなた feel the need to cut, try to distract yourself. Maybe find some new hobbies.

Secondly, get help.
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posted 1年以上前 
Panda-Hero said:
Stop. Wear a ジャケット ALL 日 (I know it's hot but I wear jackets every 日 Bl) so あなた don't see your arms, and stay around your family so あなた won't have time または privacy to cut yourself.
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posted 1年以上前 
adultswimperson said:
Mental Hospital.

True story.
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posted 1年以上前 
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Nopenopenope
Dogtier posted 1年以上前
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NONONONONONONONONONONONONONONO
Castalinia posted 1年以上前
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@Castalinia, If your parents don't want あなた to die then あなた should stop starting now, otherwise they WILL send あなた to one because they think your trying to commit suicide.
adultswimperson posted 1年以上前
buffyl0v3r44 said:
I think あなた should try to talk to someone close to あなた about it, most people would recommend a psychiatrist, but truthfully I don't think they work, but こんにちは whatever works for you. Cutting yourself doesn't solve any problems so just stop. あなた obviously have issues if your trying to hurt yourself, so I think あなた just to relax and take things easy for a while. I checked プロフィール out and あなた seem quite depressed, emo, ect. so I think あなた should take that off your プロフィール and make it happier, I think that its just reminding あなた of the pain your going through, so I think if あなた start telling yourself positive things and being もっと見る positive then it will take あなた of the dark and bring あなた もっと見る into the light. I hoped this helped, sorry I'm not the best at giving advice, but if your not comfortable talking to family または フレンズ then あなた are もっと見る than welcome to message me anytime!
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posted 1年以上前 
JamesMalsow said:
ummm go some where were their is no knifes または any thing sharp!!!
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 ummm go some where were their is no knifes または any thing sharp!!!
posted 1年以上前 
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i use pencil sharpener blades
Castalinia posted 1年以上前
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oh but still
JamesMalsow posted 1年以上前
TheDirector said:
If あなた can, あなた should see a psychologist. And I'm not saying that because there's something wrong with you.

People tend to cut themselves when they've gone through something traumatizing または a terrible tragedy.

Psychologists are here to help people like you. They talk through your problems with あなた and try their very best to help あなた stop whatever problem または "addiction" that あなた are going through.

If あなた cannot see a psychologist, then try talking to a friend that あなた know あなた can rely on.

If あなた don't have a friend あなた can rely on, then I'm always available to talk to. I've dealt with cases such as yours, and I'm nonjudgmental in every aspect, but it's all up to you.

Best of luck, sweetie!


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posted 1年以上前 
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Thanks. The only friend i have lives in Dallas (an 時 away from me) and is moving in July because her father is in the war.
Castalinia posted 1年以上前
Ale1152 said:
Like I fucking 発言しました on the アドバイス spot, あなた fucking stop. No matter what. It's fucking stupid to do something like that.
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posted 1年以上前 
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Agreed...
BeastBoyCahill posted 1年以上前
canddfan29 said:
don't cut yourself! why do あなた do that?!
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posted 1年以上前 
noahnstar1616 said:
Wow. I know you're depressed, but wow...
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posted 1年以上前 
x-menobsessed26 said:
Just like I 投稿されました in the 質問 あなた asked in the アドバイス section, talk to me if あなた need to. Sometimes it helps もっと見る when あなた know someone is listening. I know my friend ComicLover13 also does things like this. Everything あなた say stays between あなた and me. We've done this many times for many different people.
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posted 1年以上前 
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Thanks. i will
Castalinia posted 1年以上前
RainbowOtakuX3 said:
あなた should try to find a healthier way to express your negative feelings.
Like, crying, talking to someone, convey your feelings onto paper.. Like a journal または diary.. Something other than hurting yourself.
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posted 1年以上前 
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But it helps...a little
Castalinia posted 1年以上前
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^ Even so, it's not healthy. Just.. try to relieve yourself of the habbit of cutting, and try something else that could be equally as effective.
RainbowOtakuX3 posted 1年以上前
Me_Iz_Here said:
Try to stop. Easier 発言しました than done, I know. But just try. If it's too hard, talk to someone. It can just be a friend, family member, anyone あなた can trust. Even if you're uncomfortable with it, あなた have to tell someone. Also, try to avoid any triggers. Sorry, I'd 愛 to help もっと見る but I'm not a very helpful person. :/
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posted 1年以上前 
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It's okay. あなた did help.
Castalinia posted 1年以上前
Dogtier said:
Well... I recommend talking to someone あなた trust. People あなた know won't exploit you, または blackmail あなた are anything like that.
Talk to them about it, vent to them. That helps quite a bit, and puts less stress on you, and hopefully controls the urge to cut.

I know, quitting is hard, but it's not worth it in the end. Hurting yourself, harming yourself, killing yourself does absolutely nothing.
There are many things to look フォワード, 前進, 楽しみにして to, many positive things and good people, and ending all those chances at happiness and all that is NOT worth it.
I'm sure your フレンズ and family care about あなた and would be very upset if that happened.
I'm saying this because I know cutting can turn into something more. And that's never good.

I'm am bad at giving advice. This is a subject I take seriously... so I tried to help to the best of my ability.
Sorry if my アドバイス sucks.
Just remember there are people out there that really care.
If worse comes to worse, talk to me. I'm willing to hear あなた out, always.
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posted 1年以上前 
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Thanks......:'(
Castalinia posted 1年以上前
Mecksey said:
Castalinia, I used to do the same thing. My wrist is covered with scars. And I used to make eraser marks on my lower stomach. Also on my left leg. It seemed impossible for me to stop. I was addicted, too. To be honest, my parents didn't seem to help me. So I talked to my aunt. And then I talked with my counselor. She helped me realize why I did cut. I cut because I felt I was ugly, that people hated me and were out to get me dead. That's how I felt. She helped me realize that I'm beautiful because I'm me. There's no other me. And she made me realize that I don't need people to like me to get through life. I don't need a lot of フレンズ to be happy. My life's for me, not anyone else. I've also realized that I can also have someone to help me be happy. For me, that's Ralph Macchio. Just watching his movies, または looking at him, または hearing his voice makes me happy. He's another reason that helped me stop.

I'm sorry this probably didn't help.
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posted 1年以上前 
springely said:
An hero.
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posted 1年以上前 
KJBiggestFan said:
Stop telling the internet and get HELP.
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posted 1年以上前 
ripper124 said:
Idk... when your a grown up あなた can get a job the cut this. That sounds fun. ^-^
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posted 1年以上前 
ilovemichael17 said:
find something to distract you. i have a friend who used to do it but she found something to keep her mind off of it and she stopped almost automatically
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BeastBoyCahill said:
ಠ_ಠ
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posted 1年以上前 
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Please...
BeastBoyCahill posted 1年以上前
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i know. i'm sorry, Beasty.
Castalinia posted 1年以上前
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