I once had a crush on a player. I called him my Germany. Then my best friend, who had a crush on him at one point in time, 発言しました she hates him because he is a player and then I found out he was under age drinking and came to school drunk. I stopped liking him. Because I was worried a bit.
(And によって the way, if あなた ask me, it was pretty clear what あなた were asking によって this. All these other people seem to need an actual 質問 mark または they get confused. *eye roll*)