how do あなた make big decisions??

step 01: Find out what your priorities are.
step 02: Find out which school fits your higher priorities best.
step 03: Think about it until あなた feel comfortable with the desicion.
step 04: Act on that desicion.

あなた have to choose whichever school fits your needs best.

I had the same choice a couple years back, public versus private for high school. I chose public because the public high school where I am has programs that aren't offered at private schools near me. It has programs like sociology, psychology in relationships, multiple bio classes, creative writing, human anatomy, and a good gifted class. Since I'm going into psychology, it made もっと見る sense for me to go to public school to get those courses.

あなた have to look at it the same way. Look at the courses each school offers and go to the school that has もっと見る that interests あなた and will suit what あなた want to do with your life in the future. Don't worry about your friends. あなた can keep in touch with them no matter which school あなた go to, and you'll make new ones, anyway. I have like, a dozen フレンズ who went to private high schools, and I still see them often enough.

Usually when i make a big decision i make a 一覧 of the pros and cons of each answer to the question. I break it down into small groups...i'm going to take your problem as an example
1. which is the furthest to travel to - can あなた get there in time, do they have free transport または do あなた have to pay and if so can あなた afford it?
2. one is free-dress あなた say - will あなた be comfortable in your own clothes in an environment that is not used to you? Will your style be bullied in some way and can あなた deal with that?
3. uniforms - do あなた have to pay for them and can your parents afford it every term to get あなた a new one? Will あなた feel comfortable in it?
4. Which school has the クラブ and/or AFTERSCHOOL（アフタースクール） activities あなた enjoy and could take part in?
5. Which school is best for your needs? If あなた like art もっと見る then maths, do they have a better art department then a maths department?
6. What are the success rates? Is one school marginally better then the other for a field of subject あなた could do well in?
7. Will one school give あなた もっと見る confidence and ability to go further into the educational system then the other - such as scholarships and better teaching to get あなた to uni?
8. Are あなた actually Catholic? If not, are あなた willing to become so just to get in a certain school? Will あなた feel pressurised to convert if they find out you're not?

And so forth until あなた feel you've covered everything and see which has the もっと見る yes'es.