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How many of あなた are with Gay/Bi/Lesbion rights?

because i heard that in your bible, that God is against them, saying that the homosexual person will go to hell, if they do not change their ways. no offense but i just find that screwed up.
 K5-HOWL posted 1年以上前
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Dearheart said:
Can of worms. あなた have opened it. xD

First, let's be clear about something...did あなた come to our spot looking for a fight, または do あなた genuinely want to hear what we have to say? Being "open-minded" goes both ways, あなた know. Are あなた willing to try to see things from our point of view?

If so, then here's how I think most of us see it. We believe in God - Father, Son and Holy Spirit - and we believe that the Bible was inspired and dictated directly によって Him. And the Bible states pretty clearly that guy with guys and girls with girls is wrong, both in the Old Testament and the New Testament. God designed romantic 愛 and marriage to be between a man and a woman only. Man and woman complete each other, temper each other and balance each other out...physically, emotionally and spiritually.

Look at it this way: can あなた forge a sword using two tongs または two hammers? No, あなた need one of each - one to lift and support the metal, and one to shape it into something beautiful and strong. Likewise, a godly marriage needs a man and a woman. They are both equally special and important, but in different ways. They fill each other's strengths and weaknesses and they both have natural, different roles to fill; roles assigned to them によって the Ultimate Matchmaker to help forge a strong, healthy, godly relationship. Having two men または two women together upsets the balance and distorts God's デザイン for marriage.

Having 発言しました all that...does this give us the go-ahead to hate または disrespect gays, または mean that God hates gay people? Absolutely not...'cause there's this little thing called "love the sinner, hate the sin". While standing firm in the truth is extremely important, it's equally important to reach out in 愛 to people and 表示する them the grace that our Savior showed us. Unfortunately, many Christians スイング to one of two extremes: 1) they hold on to the truth of God's Word so hard that they get obsessed with "being right" and forget to be loving. 2) They become so preoccupied with being loving that they let go of the truth completely just to make others feel better and they get all wishy-washy. Neither of those extremes are good ones. Finding the balance is the key, and a lot of Christians struggle with it; myself included.

I am NOT homophobic, and I hate it when people slap that label on me just because I disagree with homosexuality. I do not hate または fear gay people. I don't look down on them または resent them in any way. (Some of my mom's フレンズ are gay, and she's a pastor's wife!) If one of my フレンズ admitted they were addicted to drugs, I'd still 愛 them and care about them, but I'd do what I could to help them. I wouldn't drag them kicking and screaming to an NA meeting または anything, because あなた can't force someone to quit; but I'd still pray for them, talk to them about my concerns and let them know that they can get help if they want to.
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posted 1年以上前 
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(continued) Likewise, if one of my フレンズ ever came out of the closet, I wouldn't call off the friendship または force them to "pray away the gay". That's not how God works, and that's not how He'd want me to act towards them. But I'd still be open about my concerns and let them know where they could find help if they ever wanted it.
Dearheart posted 1年以上前
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LOL. xD Well, erm...thanks for the amen, and I'm glad あなた agree with my answer...but if あなた don't mind me asking, why do あなた hate them? I don't dislike あなた for saying so, but I still don't think that's a very Christlike attitude. ジーザス calls us to reach out in 愛 to everyone, especially the sinners and outcasts. "Jesus 発言しました to them, 'It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick. I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners.'" --Mark 2:17.
Dearheart posted 1年以上前
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aks god before あなた do something wrong and are bad
supershadow12 posted 1年以上前
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thespikedturtle said:
Heck no! I think there's something wrong with that. If God didn't want people to be gay/bi/lesbian, than he could have changed it. Besides, a person can't help it if they are または not, they're born with it!
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So yeah, I agree with you.
thespikedturtle posted 1年以上前
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I didnt choose to be Bi and あなた dont know how many times I considered suicide becuase of あなた people
K5-HOWL posted 1年以上前
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God may have stated that sexuality is a din. But Adam and Eve were also naked until Satan gave them the idea of shame. And あなた don't see us walking around naked! And K5-HOWL has an excellent point, there was a man who was murdered in his army base just because he was gay. Do あなた think he wanted that? If he had the choice of being gay または not, he could have avoided that with ease.
thespikedturtle posted 1年以上前
Cinders said:
I wasn't gonna touch this 質問 with a ten foot pole, for various reasons. The first of which, I'm not Christian, and since your 質問 addresses Christians, I don't feel exactly qualified to answer. 秒 of all, I don't want to make Christians feel defensive in their own spot. And third of all, I've gotten into this issue several times in the past all across fanpop, and in all honesty, I feel I've exhausted it.

But after Dearheart's response, and reactions to 発言しました response, I decided to put in my two cents.

Someone's beliefs are their own. Question, but don't attack them. For example, calling someone's beliefs "screwed up" isn't exactly fair. Even if あなた attach the phrase "no offense" to it. I am a big supporter of gay rights. I'm bisexual myself. But if people want to believe that that part of who I am is wrong, so long as they don't yell hate speech at me または trample on my rights, then let them. We have different perspectives, that's all. I try not to assume that my perspective is any もっと見る valid than their's.

I don't believe that their 閲覧数 that it is wrong should determine the laws, anymore that I believe vegetarian 閲覧数 should outlaw eating meat. But I'm OK with the fact that they hold those views. In fact, I'm even curious about those views, and have listened to interesting responses, like Dearheart's above me, for example. I still disagree - but it helps me understand their perspective more, and builds mutual respect, I think.

So be careful with these things. It could turn into a brawl, または it can become an experience for which both parties are the richer.
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posted 1年以上前 
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I agree with this answer as well, very well put.
sesshyswind posted 1年以上前
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Just curious: @ Cinders, why are あなた on this spot if あなた aren't Christian?
MadamOcta13 posted 1年以上前
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I get that a lot. So I answer it here: link
Cinders posted 1年以上前
Frizzhead said:
I believe that あなた are either born with a certain sexuality and as あなた grow it becomes もっと見る obvious especially during puberty. I don't agree with the idea that 愛 between a man and a man または a woman and a woman should be seen as a sin. When has 愛 ever been a sin and why should it be.
I think the Bible is guidelines for life but there are parts of life whether あなた have to choose between what the bible states and your own judgements and morals.

I am a Catholic and support gay/Bi/Lesbion rights wholeheartedly.I don't believe あなた have tp choose between one and the other. I am straight myself but i hate the idea of people being discriminated against based on such a thing as who あなた are attracted to. So to round it up ...no i don't think 愛 is a sin
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:3
K5-HOWL posted 1年以上前
E-rock said:
Straight :D
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i was asking if u were with Gay rights または not -_-
K5-HOWL posted 1年以上前
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Oh lololol. i dont kow
E-rock posted 1年以上前
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so are u または not?
K5-HOWL posted 1年以上前
fugiami said:
this is how i feel about it. . .adam and eve not adam and steve. but don't get me wrong, personally i have no problems w/ gay または lesbian people. i try to judge people によって the content of their character but personaly i don't believe it is natural. like i 発言しました above, adam and eve not adam and steve :)
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posted 1年以上前 
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I agree!
MadamOcta13 posted 1年以上前
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あなた shouldn't judge at all.
Dark-Axl posted 1年以上前
JesusLover47803 said:
in my personal opinion i think that God still ♥ them but hate the sins
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posted 1年以上前 
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and why does being gay HAVE to be a sin?
EmoCupCake posted 1年以上前
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Because it says so in the Bible. Or, to put it another way, God 発言しました so. 'nuff said.
faithinChrist posted 1年以上前
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OK. Right. This needs to be said. Just because it is in the Bible does not mean it is automatically true. God didn't make us. I don't want to put a faith in Christ that punishes people for loving.
MissKnowItAll posted 1年以上前
Loveaddict1234 said:
Dearheart is 100% right. Being gay may definetly be a hereditary thing but it has been 発言しました that murder is also hereditery and drugs and being a drunk and all of this. These things are sins none the less. But あなた have to resist temptations, depending on the person あなた are, those temptations may be strong または not so strong. Like あなた have to resist the temptation of drugs, あなた would also have to resist the temptations of same sex relationships, which could also be stronger than others.
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Well 発言しました :)
peterslover posted 1年以上前
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Being Gay isn't hereditary. That's like saying being shy is hereditary. It's not.
LoopyLuna96 posted 1年以上前
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Being gay is not a chioce, how many people do あなた know who want to choose a life that usually lead to suicide, bulllying, discremination, there was even a boy who was murdered MURDERED for being gay. Do あなた not know how many gays wish they werent gays because of the things that happen to them. >:(
K5-HOWL posted 1年以上前
MadamOcta13 said:
Not true! God doesn't send people to Hell just because of that! That person can't help the way they are! No, it's how they act on those feelings that is judged. I'm Catholic, so what I was taught was that gay marriges aren't appropiate, because it has to do with the fact that God created man and woman to be together, not man and man または woman and woman. But just because あなた feel that way doesn't mean that you'll go to Hell (again, I'm Catholic; other religions might have a different take).
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posted 1年以上前 
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God also created Hermaphadites
K5-HOWL posted 1年以上前
MissKnowItAll said:
Can opened... worms everywhere

But I am completely FOR!
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Lolly4me2 said:
I'm with the rights.
I have some gay and bi friends, actually...
I mean, that doesn't make God 愛 me any less, right?
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uscfever94 said:
I think that as long as we believe that God is our creator and ジーザス died on the クロス for our sins to be forgiven, in which he is our savior, then God won't banish us to Hell because we are saved. Correct me if I'm wrong but our salvation cannot be tooken from us once we have accepted Christ. All sins are equal so being gay is equal to telling a little white lie to get out of a speeding ticket または a date. Thats just what I think but I'd 愛 to get some feedback on my opinion.
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愛 the アイコン
K5-HOWL posted 1年以上前
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I agree!
SouthParkSmart posted 1年以上前
LoopyLuna96 said:
Why shouldn't they have the same rights? They're still Human. Everyone has the right to love!
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sapherequeen said:
I am! :)
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In case this didn't make sense; I'm for Gay Rights. I myself may be bisexual.
sapherequeen posted 1年以上前
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Same here.
zanesaaomgfan posted 1年以上前
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