No, it's not! There's no right または wrong, when it comes to sex, with some rare exceptions, legally speaking. One thing doesn't rule out the other! Why should あなた deny yourself the pleasures of self-indulgence, just because your partner does everything あなた can possibly imagine only to satisfy you?! Besides, your partner won't always be around. Wait until you're alone. Then, あなた can do whatever あなた want.
