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So, I want to wait until marraige...

I'm happy with my decision, for the most part. But I was just wondering, if I do wait,

does that mean I can't live with my partner?

Do I have to get married early in the relationship because it will be the only 'next level' option?

Are there any other non-christians making this choice?

Are there any people who would be willing to wait just because their partner chooses to? How much am I narrowing my options によって choosing this?
 MissKnowItAll posted １年以上前
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Vixie79 said:
My philosophy is, if it makes あなた happy do it, if it makes あなた uncomfortable あなた should probably avoid it all together. If waiting is what あなた want to do go for it. I say the same for ones that don't see marriage in there future at all. Some people see themselves getting married and others don't. It depends on you, あなた have that choice either way.
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Unless あなた want to try to step out of your comfort zone which isn't unhealthy to do at all. It can really broaden your horizons and open your eyes.
Vixie79 posted １年以上前
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Thank あなた for answering. :)
MissKnowItAll posted １年以上前
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You're welcome.
Vixie79 posted １年以上前
SouthParkSmart said:
あなた can live with your partner, あなた just can't have sex. If あなた think living under the same roof would be too tempting, I wouldn't try it.

Nope, あなた can get married whenever あなた feel あなた are ready. This is a test of self-control. I think if もっと見る people waited until they were married to have sex, there would be a lot less divorce (like because of unwanted pregnancies, etc.) If あなた have sex before you're married, あなた may find that あなた are just sexually attracted to the person, but あなた actually have nothing in common. Waiting is a great way for two people to get to know one another.

I'm sure there are, but I'm a Christian who wants to wait.

You're not narrowing your options; you're just weeding out the pigs who will just want あなた for your body and don't care about あなた at all.
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Thanks for answering. :)
MissKnowItAll posted １年以上前
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IMO the only reason why a couple would get a divorce because of having an unplanned pregnancy would be because one または both families forced them to get married in the first place. Like my brother and sis in law. 70% of couples reported the cause of their divorces fell under these categories: Incompatibility, lack of emotional support, abuse, sexual problems (which could be having waited after marriage または not) and money.
Vixie79 posted １年以上前
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That's interesting. That's just my opinion. I have no experience, it's just that I've been raised to believe that.
SouthParkSmart posted １年以上前
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It's okay ♥ Everyone has their own. I was raised that way too, I just started thinking for myself I guess and started looking for answer myself.
Vixie79 posted １年以上前
djsheshe said:
waiting is a good decision and no u shdnt live with u're partner as others have already said, its too tempting.

u wont hve to get married early cuz if u find yourself in that situation, u know u r only getting married for sex and if u're partner cnt agree with that then its their loss.

im christian and i'm waiting and i would wait for my partner.


any way i thnk its a good thing u're waiting. :)
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Thanks. :)
MissKnowItAll posted １年以上前
adieee said:
No, of course あなた can live with your partner

あなた should only get married to the person if you're sure you're ready to get married and if あなた really 愛 them

I haven't made that decision but I know there are many other non christians who have

Not sure about the last comment
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