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Can あなた help me with my guy troubles?

I need advice. There are these two guys that i like a ton. But i am going out w/ one of them (lets call him Eric) but still have feelings for the other one.. lets call him Ron. So a few months 前 i told Ron that i just want to be friends, and im pretty sure he cried :(... But now i have feelings for Ron, but now he's ignoring me. How can I stay フレンズ w/ Ron and not let Eric get in the way of that? (CHEATING IS NOT AN OPTION)plz help! thanks :)
 catsrule465 posted 1年以上前
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LadyL68 said:
This sounds like a problem my friend is having. She won't take my advice, but maybe あなた will. あなた have to be direct with both of them. Do it soon, または else あなた will lose both of them. あなた have a few options.
1. Break up with Eric and tell Ron that your sorry あなた hurt him. Be フレンズ with him for a while, then ask him out when あなた think he is ready.
2.Stick with Eric if あなた truly like him.
3. Be just フレンズ with both of them.
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posted 1年以上前 
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but i want to be もっと見る than フレンズ for sure w/ eric, but i dont like ron ignoring me(and btw i chose the name ron from hp :) --but anyway, how do i get ron to lighten up a bit and be best フレンズ practicall?
catsrule465 posted 1年以上前
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Thats a tough one, but I'd just say that あなた need to talk to Ron and appologise if あなた hurt him. Be nice to him and see if he really is what あなた want in a guy. You'll find the one thats better for あなた eventually. Nice name choice, btw :)
LadyL68 posted 1年以上前
thespikedturtle said:
Being a guy, I'd really want to know if a situation like this was going on.

If I was Ron, I'd feel mad at あなた only if I truly liked you, and I'd want to know if あなた felt the same way towards me.

If I was Eric, I'd be completely clueless on what was happening, and I'd like to know if あなた actually felt anything toward me.

I think it'd be easier if あなた saw this from every possible perspective, and I hope it works out!
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posted 1年以上前 
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Thanks, that helped :) but Eric know i really like him... however i doubt Ron has a clue :(
catsrule465 posted 1年以上前
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Just stay honest to both of them, things will work out eventually! :)
thespikedturtle posted 1年以上前
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