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I need help! Should I stay または leave?

I wouldn't ask for anyones help または opinion I wouldn't waist your time. But I need some opinions please

Long story short so I met a guy online. He lives in texas and i 愛 in denver. We've exchanged pictures, talked on the phone, played online with him, We Skyped. I grew fond of him and we've developed a really strong friendship. I planed to fly down after I tured 18 in July. He has everything all set up for me to fly down または take a bus. But here the problem.... my parents refuse to let me take this trip. They have called me every name and the book and that I'm selfie and brain washed. I've planed to come back I'm not leaving forever. Only a week in July to see if we click. My parents have told me if I leave they will disown me I will not be accepted によって then back if for some reason him and I don't "click".

Should I go against there wishes and go anyway because it's what I want.

Do I obey what they 発言しました because if I take this risk and it doesn't work I will have no family left.

Please leave your full opinion. Be blunt lol I need a new perspective thank あなた so much.
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Why are they hating this? Have a rational conversation with them. What are their reasons?
Zippy100 posted １年以上前
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I have 100% tried having a rashional conversation they haven't met him there for its not okay.
DanDan211985 posted １年以上前
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There afraid of losing the person that cooks and cleans for them it's not just worried about my safety
DanDan211985 posted １年以上前
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greyswan618 said:
Why can't he come to you?Tell him the situation with your parents and see what he says.If he agrees to come down to あなた then ask if maybe your parents can meet him to see what he's like in person to see if あなた are compatible and maybe または maybe not they will let あなた visit him after あなた turn 18.
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That is a good point.
Zippy100 posted １年以上前
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BlindBandit92 posted １年以上前
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I hope I am not too late to put in my opinion - I have to say that even though あなた don't believe that your parents are concerned about your safety, there is still a very strong concern about a young female going to meet a man for the first time. It is best that he comes to meet you, your parents and others that 愛 you. Let them check him out etc. There have been so many cases where women have been placed in danger によって meeting a man the way he is proposing. If he does not agree - then あなた know there is something amiss and あなた would be 安全, 安全です not meeting him ever.
MaxandMart posted １年以上前
Rihanna312 said:
Well, I`d say a lot depends on how old あなた both are. Maybe あなた are too young to travel like this alone and あなた parents are just worried. But if あなた are old enough and maybe have traveled somewhere alone before, I think あなた should talk to them and explain everything again.
They probably just are worried that the guy is not what he tells to be. With all those stories about catfishing online. あなた could also let them have a short convo with him over skype, so they see that he isn`t some creepy 50+yo weirdo.
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I'm 18 lol. No I haven't traveled anywhere before but I have worked in fast 食 at a truck stop. They have there mind set but I will discuss with them again and again until I chose to leave または figure out a plan em your absolutely right but they have other kids they have met people online and they were who they 発言しました they were. I'm the last of there kids so they have alot of expectations. Thank あなた so much I will definitely consider the Skype =]
DanDan211985 posted １年以上前
TheLefteris24 said:
How long have あなた been knowing this person? Are あなた that confident about the trust both of あなた have built in the meanwhile? If あなた feel that everything concerning this trip is safe, then feel free to do it. Concerning your parents, did あなた talked it out with them? Sitting down and having a conversation about the Friendship あなた share with the person あなた want to visit can go a long way. If あなた have done that and they still refuse to let あなた go, how about taking them with あなた または introduce your Friend to them through Skype? They just seem to be pretty worried for あなた and it is only natural since quite a few cases of meeting through the Web didn't end well. あなた 発言しました that あなた have turned 18 but that means あなた only just now legally reached adulthood. To a Parent, their Kids will always been seen as such. Those threats are only an indication of their fear. I wouldn't place much thought on them. I would suggest to take some time and try to work out things with them as best as あなた can. If things are just as genuine as they seem, they will realize it. Your Friend might wait a bit but I am sure he will respect that. あなた have all the time in the World to meet him. Especially since あなた two have developed a strong bond as あなた 発言しました !!!!
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Not everyone is bluffing with the disowning man. Some people are serious. あなた probably shouldn't tell people they might not mean it because quite often people do and people generally don't throw out disowning as a threat.
BlindBandit92 posted １年以上前
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^ I told her not to worry sick about it. Not disregard it completely. The fact that they used such a threat over a matter like this is an indication of how much they worry about her. That is how it comes across to me. Personally, I have seen disowning being a pretty common form of Persuasiveness. The possibility of being a bluff still exists. Regardless, things need to be worked out with her parents. A point like that can be pretty easily avoided によって following one of the possible solutions that has been proposed in here または finding something other way of her own !!!!
TheLefteris24 posted １年以上前
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I'm glad if I could help in any way possible. You're welcome !!!!
TheLefteris24 posted １年以上前
BlindBandit92 said:
Aside from potentially being disowned. あなた might want to also reaffirm that he's an okay guy because there's been instances where guys and girls met people online and it did not go the way they planned at all.

Otherwise if あなた do take the trip maybe ask your siblings to allow あなた to take if they disown you? I am sorry I don't really have advise for あなた as I have not been in this situation.
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I've been talking to them asking and asking and explaining. And I do know that about guys and girls meeting online sometimes people just don't get along. I will definitely consult my siblings before I leave there just gunna talk me out of it tho lol. こんにちは アドバイス is アドバイス I very much appreciate it alot
DanDan211985 posted １年以上前
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^NO it's not just not getting alone some people kidnap people online. あなた need to be careful who あなた meet.
BlindBandit92 posted １年以上前
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^Alright np
BlindBandit92 posted １年以上前
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